Encourage her to bring her friends home. You can meet her friends and even become friends with them, so that you can know what she usually does. As the saying goes, those who are near Zhu Zhechi are black. You can also take care of her friends, and bad friends advise her not to associate.
The above is just my personal opinion.
Education is something that needs to be handled by yourself, and others can only give some advice. Not too hard, not too loose. Relaxation is the best.
Girls still advise their mothers to educate them, which can narrow the distance. Some problems can only be solved by mothers.
1, strengthen the education of "three views"
The correct world outlook, outlook on life and values are people's guidance to society and life. They answered questions such as what is the purpose of life, how people should spend their lives, and what kind of people should be. What kind of ideals and pursuits should we guide them to establish, that is, what kind of behavior and self-image they have. The "three views" of girls, especially the education of outlook on life, is particularly important. Contemporary female students have active thoughts and strong plasticity. Junior high school is the golden age for them to establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values. Through the "three views" education, let them clearly understand the heat of form, distinguish right from wrong, work hard and strive for their future. This method is conducive to guiding the fourth kind of female students mentioned above. Make them realize the value and significance of their lives and guide them on the right path.
2. Grasp the information of the times and hold a girls' meeting in time.
Generally speaking, students have little contact with the outside world and know nothing about some things in society, which often happens among girls. In view of this situation, it is necessary for the school to hold a girls' meeting in time, and tell girls how to deal with this kind of thing at the meeting, so that they can strengthen their awareness, be vigilant, avoid being deceived and prevent incidents.
3. Carry out investigation and study, make full use of "targeted" education methods, and strengthen ideological education for girls.
Targeted education refers to the education of girls' own psychological and physiological characteristics and ways of thinking. The education of girls' "self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance and self-improvement" is an important subject of girls' ideological education. We should persist in grasping for a long time, pay close attention to reality, and aim at the characteristics of strong self-esteem and vanity of girls. In the process of education, we should analyze and treat specific problems, never unify dogma, find problems and help them clear their ideological concerns in time.
4. Strengthen the daily management of girls.
The daily management of girls mainly includes daily diet, health habits, physical exercise and so on. Junior high school is the beginning of their youth, the golden age for them to determine the coordinates of their lives, and the most confused period in their minds. During this period, they are unclear or unaware of their daily management knowledge, especially the lack of health knowledge, and are confused about their special physiology. In this case, it is necessary for schools to carry out health knowledge education for teenagers, which is of great help to their physical and mental health and study. Therefore, female teachers who work for girls must often go deep into them, understand the situation, talk and make friends, help them do a good job in daily management, and let them feel themselves and understand the true meaning of life in the atmosphere of self-education and management.