For most of the first-born children, as long as they have certain self-awareness ability, they don't want their parents to have a second child. They will think that the second child is to share and enjoy everything around them with themselves, so I think their hearts are abnormal. After all, having a second child will help you share all the costs of supporting your parents in the future.

First, should you get the consent of the boss (the first child) to have a second child? In fact, many parents must have thought about this eternal topic. If you have a second child, will the first child be kind to the second child, or will it bully the second child? All this is just an unknown number. Chen saw the news report that a family in a city was forced to abort a child who was pregnant for three months because of the boss's obstruction. The comments of netizens are as follows, some are good and some are bad. Personally, I think that having children should only be a matter for parents, and the elderly can only refer to it and cannot influence their parents' thoughts. If a parent needs to consider the boss's idea in everything, then he must be a very failed parent, which is unacceptable. This also confirms why there are more men than women in China. If the child is still very young, then this situation does not exist.

The second is whether one child is better or two children are better. In fact, this topic has also made many parents very entangled. Some people say it's good to have one child, some people say it's good to have two children, and some people say that it's good to give birth to a few children, as long as it doesn't become a fertility tool and prefer sons to daughters. In fact, having children does not need to look at the attitude of the man's family. Girls have the right to decide whether to have children or not. Now all kinds of fertility problems are solved by medical technology. The number of children depends entirely on couples, not parents and children. Like in the past (grandparents' time), it was normal for a family to have four or five or six brothers and sisters. Are they upset because they have many brothers and sisters, but they are very happy. Family planning since the 1980s and 1990s made us not want brothers and sisters (until the second child was opened). After the opening of the second child, some parents are older or have no brothers or sisters for family reasons.

With the arrival of the second child era, the psychological problems caused by parents wanting to have a second child are all caused by the boss or family. Parents need not worry too much. It is best to have a second child according to the specific situation.