Under the rich material environment and the protection of parents, children have never suffered anything and don't know what suffering is. Their physical and mental development is limited and their psychological endurance is weakened. Even a small setback may cause a great blow to children. Therefore, parents must educate their children to suffer hardships in peacetime.
This is an exercise that makes children suffer when they are young or young. Early experience and understanding can help children learn to struggle and cherish everything they have in life. There is a consensus in western education circles: "People who have a very happy childhood often have unfortunate adulthood." Frustration and pain are a valuable asset, which can let children know hard work, persistence and positive attitude? Importance also makes children's success more meaningful.
Understanding children's feelings and helping them get out of setbacks and setbacks as soon as possible is something that every mother can do. Encourage children, don't be intimidated by failure, let children challenge one obstacle after another happily and bravely, and establish firm confidence. Suggestions on how to educate children about setbacks are as follows: First, let children know the existence of setbacks.
Some children are taken good care of by their parents, and all the minor troubles they encounter are handled by their parents. This will give children a feeling that life is so smooth. Once you enter the school and step into the society, you will feel unable to adapt, because many problems that you didn't need to face before have now appeared, and you must face them yourself, which will be difficult to bear. Therefore, it is absolutely necessary for parents to let their children know that life is not smooth sailing and they will encounter many difficulties and setbacks, but these difficulties and setbacks will pass.
Second, let children realize that setbacks are not terrible.
When children encounter setbacks and difficulties, parents should not hit their children and say, "Why are you so useless and worthless?" Instead, it is necessary to cheer up the children in time and tell them that "frustration and pain are not terrible." When children encounter setbacks, parents should regard it as a good educational opportunity, let children realize that setbacks in life are inevitable, and have the courage and confidence to overcome setbacks and difficulties.
Third,? Let children learn from setbacks.
In life, many children become depressed as soon as they encounter something unsatisfactory, and return to normal life after a period of time, but they have not learned their lessons. Parents should help their children, let them learn from setbacks, improve their ability to withstand setbacks and learn how to overcome difficulties.
Fourth, teach children to adjust their emotions in the face of setbacks.
When encountering setbacks, there will definitely be times of depression. Parents should not let their children fall into negative emotions. Instead, let children learn to face everything, think about what they are good at, constantly change their disadvantages, and let children face adversity and various challenges in life with a positive attitude.