Plan this holiday with the children.
In this book, I am full of respect for this mother who has been engaged in education. With her own experience and groping experience, she has made brilliant achievements in the field of children's education, founded the Institute of Talents Education, and summed up a series of educational experiences, which are worth learning.
There is a sentence in the book that appeals to me-"Parents also need proof of employment". It is easy to be a parent, but it is really difficult to be a qualified parent. Parents are children's first teachers, which I have been worried about, but it is not easy to be a good teacher. When a child who knows nothing about the world is given to you, he will grow into an adult through your 10 years of teaching and training. Parents' education is very important and determines his life development. Especially when the child is curious, you should answer questions and give him an answer, which may have a great impact on his outlook on life and values in the future, which is undoubtedly a great test for adults. I was with my son, and faced with his curiosity, I was in a dilemma several times. So I decided to answer questions with my son, do them together, and grow up happily together.
As the enlighteners of children, parents should know what their children need, not what kind of children you need. They should ask their children to develop according to their own wishes and ideas, respect their own choices, treat them as individuals, respect, love, encourage and appreciate them, and they will get what you deserve in the near future, and they will respect and love you equally.
Children are your friends and relatives. You should be tolerant without indulgence, patient without noise, listening without arbitrariness, and intimate without separation. For young children, squat down and communicate with them so that they can feel that you are equal. For children who make mistakes, parents should first restrain their emotions, educate them patiently and meticulously, and don't start work, because practice has proved that when I am rude to her, I will often show it to her in the near future.
Parents are role models for their children, and the improvement of their own quality can also drive their children's progress, so parents should keep learning and increase their cultural and moral background. As children grow up, the problems they face in each life stage are different. Parents should have a sense of being ahead of time and make preparations in advance before their children enter a certain stage. Read more books on children's psychology, understand children's inner world, communicate with children more, deal with the confusion, anxiety and uneasiness of children's inner world in time, and let children grow up happily.
As a mother, it should be like this, especially as a teacher. To be an excellent educator, we should not only have extensive and profound professional knowledge, but also understand students' psychology, and need the guidance of correct and advanced educational concepts, as well as better educational skills and even art.
As a teacher, I am deeply impressed by the "random education" in the book. Education should correct bad behaviors in life anytime and anywhere, which poses a severe challenge to every educator. This requires us to be a person who keeps learning, a person with complete personality and a good personality, because teachers will become the objects of children's imitation consciously or unconsciously. Only in this way can we cultivate excellent students consciously and unplanned in words and deeds and become wise teachers.
The sentence "Parents can only see their son's world when they crouch down" is also worthy of our taste. As educators, we should kneel down and communicate with students on an equal footing, look at the advantages of students with a magnifying glass, and look at their shortcomings with a reducing mirror. Don't pay too much attention to students' shortcomings, which will make them lose confidence, ignore them too much, let them go with the flow, and let his shortcomings disappear quietly in the unconscious process. We should look for reasons from ourselves, instead of blindly looking for shortcomings in children, which will always be the result of failure.
Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of the family. Children's education should not be confined to the field of knowledge. In fact, a person's perfection is often more prominent in the fields of morality, emotion and handling affairs. The future society needs compound talents with good communication skills, team spirit and sense of responsibility. Compared with those who only have knowledge and are not ideal in others, they are more able to integrate into society and create great wealth for society.
From children to adults, from adults to parents and teachers. We always design grand blueprints for them. In fact, designing a grand blueprint is not important. It is important to grow up with children and draw a grand blueprint for the future when growing up.