Keep calm
When children are rebellious, their emotions are like storms, but parents should keep calm and avoid using power to suppress them. Wait for the child to calm down before communicating, so as to better understand the child's thoughts.
Listen more and talk less.
Effective listening can help parents understand their children's real thoughts and give them more trust and autonomy. When communicating with children, we should listen more and talk less, and respect children's sense of independence.
Trust and respect children.
Give children trust and let them experience the opportunity to think and act independently. Parents should respect their children's choices and accept their imperfections, so as to establish a good parent-child relationship.
Limit the discussion to the controversial issues.
Avoid directly denying children, communicate with them in an open way, and guide them to look at problems correctly. Tell the truth when dealing with problems, don't turn over old scores, and let children receive education better.
Become a child's bosom friend.
Understand and support your child's desire for independence, make suggestions for her, and let her feel your concern and help. Parents should put down their elders' airs and become their children's bosom friends, so as to communicate with their children better.