So we packed our bags, left home, left our parents and young children behind and found a job in a strange city. Every day is anxious for a few taels of silver. Day after day, year after year!
How long has it been since you talked to your children?
How long has it been since you settled down to enjoy the starry sky overhead with your family?
In this fast-paced era, we are constantly moving forward, running between the unit and the dormitory every day.
At present, many factories have two shifts, white shift and night shift, and the workers are overdrawn. Sometimes a day's work consumes all our energy, leaving only a tired body and empty eyes, and there is no time to take care of anything else!
We ran hard for the house, the car, the children ... When one day we find that our children are no longer close to us and our parents are getting old day by day, we still can't change our fate and stop running!
It's not that we don't want to stop, but that we dare not. Stop, life can't be maintained. If you stop, you will be eliminated by society.
How many parents left their children to grandparents!
How many left-behind children used to be, and now their children have become left-behind children!
They all say "Don't let the children lose at the starting line". What is the starting line?
I think parents' company and good education are the real starting line for children.
How can children's personality cultivation, mental health and academic performance be inseparable from their parents?
But many parents are not around their children, how to educate them!
The education of grandparents at that time was fifty or sixty years different from that of today. How can their education level and ideas keep up with the development of today's society?
In this big environment, everyone has to run, including the elderly and children. Although the children look carefree now, they are not as happy as we were then. In order to take good care of their grandchildren, the old people have to accept some new things.
Many parents think that as long as their children are safe and healthy, they dare not expect anything else. However, in this fiercely competitive society, isn't the future probability of children the same as ours? This will not form a "vicious circle"!
Many people just started working out of desperation for life, or just want to make a transition and make a little money before doing something else. But two years, five years, ten years and twenty years are still in the factory!
Why?
Because it has been "institutionalized" by the factory.
Never get used to it, become used to it, and then rely on it. This is institutionalization.
Just like the prison wall in the movie The Shawshank Redemption, at first people will hate it, resist it, then get used to it, and finally after a long time, they find that they can't live without it!
When we first entered the society, many people were ambitious and full of ambition. After a long time, how many people have been slowly changed by the environment and gradually began to adapt to this life, but they have no courage to change this environment.
Foreigners say that we like to make money hard when we are young, but when we are old, we must try our best to save our lives with money! That's true, but many people have begun to use money to save their lives before they are old!
Some special jobs in the factory, such as oil spraying, powder spraying, grinding, polishing and so on. These will obviously cause direct harm to the body. If you accidentally get sick, you will owe a large amount of foreign debt, regardless of hollowing out your old capital. Recently, the circle of friends has always brushed the information of "water drops", and my heart is really mixed!
Choosing a job is more of a helplessness, but no matter what you do, your health should come first. Only with good health can we have a good life. In the end, I don't make money, my family doesn't care, and my body is also dragged down.