1, don't force children to be close to others, cultivate the consciousness of body autonomy, and cultivate healthy and responsible sexual concepts. In fact, when a person is born, it begins. When we respect the rights of babies and understand and meet their physiological needs, we begin "sex education".
As children grow up, they may refuse to be physically close to grandparents, menstrual uncles and even parents. Therefore, don't force children to hug and kiss people they don't know or are unfamiliar with, because this will not only disrespect children's personality, but also mislead children to regard physical closeness as an obligation.
2. Respect your child's sexual feelings, but tell him that sex is a private matter. In fact, the fetus will touch or rub his sex organs in the womb to get some stimulation and relaxation. We can carry out "sex education" by constantly acknowledging children's feelings about sex and allowing them to express their feelings. At the same time, children's behavior should be defined according to family values.
Respecting children's physical autonomy and laying a good foundation for the development of children's healthy sexual concept requires us to respond positively when children need to be close and give respect when children express their desire to be quiet and alone; Don't force children to have physical intimacy, and don't reward them after they have physical intimacy as required.
3. Be the first person to talk to children about sex before they come into contact with the wrong sexual information.
On the premise of love and respect, knowing what sex is will not take away the innocence and purity of children. If we think sex is a hard thing to talk about, it is because when we first learned about sex, we were not so happy. But when we become parents, we can do better than before. With respect for the miracle of life, love and affection, this is a gift we need to give our children and tell them the physiological principle of human reproduction.
In addition, not only children's psychological education pays attention to methods, but also early childhood literacy education pays attention to methods. People's memory of pictures is very profound. Compared with boring words, they need to practice line by line. For example, Cat, Xiao and Shuai learn Chinese characters is a software that evolves pictures into fonts, so that children can learn Chinese characters in curiosity and happiness. My daughter has been exposed to Chinese characters since she was three years old, and now she has used more than 300 words a year. This is a good software for free.
Cats, handsome guys and Chinese characters are good examples of picture evolution in Chinese characters. Let children perceive the world and learn knowledge at the same time. This learning method and thinking ability are of great help to the heavy learning tasks in the future.