Strengthen the education of love and responsibility, and cultivate lofty aspirations: realize that children are the successors of the future career, love rather than spoil, and raise rather than spoil. Parents should love their children. Loving children is not only human nature, but also an education. However, loving children is not only reflected in the care of children's lives and materials, but also in the education and training of children, so that children can grow up healthily in all aspects.

To this end, strict discipline and careful training of children is true love. On the contrary, it is harmful to spoil, use and indulge children. As the saying goes, "strict love dotes on harm", which deserves our vigilance. In the family, the relationship between parents and children should be democratic, harmonious, United and mutually supportive. Parents should respect their children's opinions, interests and self-esteem and change the traditional concept of being an old man.

Matters needing attention in family education:

A child's self-image is built up from the interaction with others. Children who are often called stupid, ugly and disobedient will naturally show the characteristics of being stupid, ugly and disobedient. To make matters worse, children may subconsciously identify with themselves in this way.

Therefore, when we communicate with children, we must learn to appreciate them, build their self-confidence with praise and affirmation, and let them show the characteristics of "intelligence", "confidence" and "beauty".