What is encouraging education?
The so-called encouragement education method, also known as appreciation education method, is an educational method that enables students to complete their learning tasks with self-confidence, self-improvement and enterprising attitude in a relaxed, harmonious and pleasant atmosphere. Encouraging education is a way that accords with students' psychological characteristics and is easily accepted by students. Encouraging education means that when children make mistakes in the process of growing up, parents don't blame or beat and scold, but encourage them in other good ways to make them realize their mistakes. This kind of education is conducive to helping children shape good character and cultivate their self-confidence.
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The benefits of encouraging education
1, encouraging education is conducive to shaping children's good character.
Encouraging education means that when children make mistakes in the process of growing up, parents don't blame or beat and scold, but encourage them in other good ways to make them realize their mistakes. This kind of education is conducive to helping children shape good character and cultivate their self-confidence.
2. Encouraging education helps children to understand mistakes more deeply.
Some parents believe that when children make mistakes, they must be severely pointed out, criticized and corrected. In fact, if we start with encouragement, children will realize their mistakes more deeply, and the result will be much better than blindly accusing and criticizing, and children will not easily have rebellious psychology.
3. Encouraging education is beneficial to children's self-affirmation.
Long-term criticism will only make children deny themselves, produce great psychological pressure and lose confidence in themselves. Encouraging education is to educate children from a positive starting point, which is conducive to children's self-affirmation.
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Which is more effective, encouraging education or combating education?
This is the fifth issue of the slam dunk program in the fourth season, which once again throws out the old discussion-different expressions of encouraging education and attacking education. During the training and competition, Zhu, Marbury, Guo and other coaches put a lot of energy into the guidance, but some players entered the state slowly and made obvious mistakes. Faced with such a situation, some coaches choose to comfort and encourage, and some coaches choose to hit the "pain point" of players mercilessly; But everyone's acceptance is different and the effect is different. We have been facing this problem from our school days to our working life. Through the concrete analysis of specific problems, only when the educational methods are relaxed to a certain extent can the ideal effect be achieved. Which way do you prefer to accept in life?
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What impact will impact education have on children?
1. Like father, like son, children will educate the next generation in the same way.
The influence of parents on their children is subtle. How parents educate their children is likely to educate the next generation in the same way. Every father and son have different personalities, and fathers should treat their children in the most appropriate and appropriate way of education.
2. Children's self-confidence is impaired and they become inferior.
A child's mind is sensitive and fragile. If you strike again and again, it will only hurt your child's fragile mind. It is precisely because children don't know what is right and wrong, so when children do something wrong, they should guide them correctly, not criticize them; When children do small things right, parents should also praise them in time, and their self-confidence will be greatly satisfied.
3, personality defects, lack of security.
I have been in my parents' rage for a long time, and my ears are full of reprimands and criticisms. And children's hearts often become sensitive and fragile. In the face of parents' moodiness, children are cautious every day. Because he doesn't know what words and actions will cause his parents' anger. In this environment, children's personality is deformed, and they gradually develop deceptive and flattering personalities, and even become dual personalities. Similarly, living in the reprimand of parents for a long time, children's sense of security is gradually lacking, which is easy to make their personality more sensitive, and they are afraid of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss since childhood.