Under this educational concept, children are often just tools for exams, and they can't adapt to society well. So we often see such news that many children enter the society after graduating from college, but they can't do anything, even have the ability to take care of themselves.
That's a bit ridiculous. Most parents take care of their children wholeheartedly and try their best to let them study, only to find that their children are not only incompetent, but even have no basic living ability. Looking back on our education, we can see many problems. We blindly let the children absorb some knowledge and let him cope with the exam, but never consider the development of other aspects of the children.
On the other hand, China is probably some European and American countries, especially German. Speaking of Germany, we can all think of the rigorous attitude of Germans, especially German science and technology, but when we deeply understand their culture, we will find that their educational ideas are also worth learning.
First of all, German parents know how to let their children live by themselves at the right time.
In this respect, China's parents are completely opposite. They like to tie up their children. In Germany, once children go to primary school, they completely "indulge" their children. No matter whether children eat or drink Lazar or their daily life, parents will not interfere too much, but let them learn their own lives through constant exploration.
In sharp contrast to German parents, we always help children to handle all this and enjoy a seemingly "automated" society, so children gradually lose their autonomy in this environment where everything is ready.
Secondly, German parents respect their children's development.
Parents in our country always play too many roles in the process of children's growth. They are not only parents, but also nannies at home. We should not only take care of children's daily life, but also interfere with their privacy and even their growth.
If children have their own ideas at a certain stage, they will use their own ideas to force them, but they don't respect their own ideas at all. German parents often don't interfere too much with their children's thoughts, and even let their children do something boldly according to their own ideas, so that their children can develop healthily in the process of free growth.
In fact, our parents' educational concept is largely due to our history and culture. On the one hand, China's education system forces parents to do so. Although this educational idea has many disadvantages, it is still suitable for the development of our society. It's just that we should fully realize the influence of our inherent educational concept on children's growth, and pay attention to children's development in other aspects while paying attention to their achievements.
So parents should stop blindly watching their children's grades. We can learn from this educational concept of German parents and make children become all-round development people.