Traditional ideas are deeply rooted in people's ideology. In modern society, men always suffer more than women. In a family, men are generally the masters of the family, and men bear the responsibility of bringing home the bacon. Therefore, we raise boys from childhood, and the requirements for boys will be more demanding, just to make boys grow up to be particularly upright men.
If you want your boy to be more productive and responsible when he grows up, to be a man who can stand the test of wind and rain, to bear the burden of society and to be a real man, parents must keep in mind the following principles in order to raise qualified boys.
There are boys at home. Parents should adhere to the "Five Principles" in education, and sons should be responsible for the future sunshine.
First, let children know the meaning of men from an early age.
Although there are few children nowadays, and they are all spoiled, once a boy is born, his family and social mission has become inevitable, so be sure to tell him when he is a little sensible. What is a man? What kind of responsibility and responsibility should men take in the future society?
You can tell your children what a man is like through some war heroes in history. If a boy accidentally falls down in life, pick him up and tell him that a real man is not afraid of falling down. If a child is not careful, it is my skin.
When you cry, you must tell your child that boys will experience more storms in the future. What is this minor injury? Use some inspiring words to strengthen the children's hearts, and then they can face the future storms more optimistically.
Second, encourage boys to exercise.
I am a woman, and the real man in my mind is very masculine. I want to have a strong body. A healthy and strong body is the foundation of doing everything. I should tell my children from an early age not to be afraid of hardship and physical fatigue. A promising person is sure to stand up to physical exercise.
In today's society, there are many men, and their bodies may be softer, slimmer and dressed like sissies than women. I hate this very much, and it is an insult to the history and culture of China, so we must cultivate our son to be full of masculinity from an early age. You can start by exercising your child's body and become a real man with a positive appearance.
Third, in the choice of friends, we must make more friends with boys.
I am a person with very strong traditional ideas. I have always thought that there are differences between men and women, but there are some situations in today's society. A boy's best friend is no longer a boy but a girl. Originally, they were just bored friends walking together.
It makes people feel uncomfortable, and you can easily find that these men who make friends with girls are either feminine or neutral, which is abnormal social interaction. There is no absolutely pure boyfriend and girlfriend, and parents should interfere when they know about it.
Parents should be friends with their sons.
A good parent-child relationship is not only the relationship between children and parents, but also the relationship between friends. When they become friends with their children, parents can communicate with their children more and listen to their inner thoughts. When boys are older, they will have the psychology of going out to start a career, but they are afraid of their parents' opposition.
Especially when children reach puberty in junior high school, they will be opposed to their parents, and some boys will have a good impression on the opposite sex. At this time, only when parents and children become friends and actively communicate with their children like friends can they correctly guide their children through this hurdle.
5. Don't let boys live too comfortably.
Don't let children live a comfortable life here, not to say that children dress and eat badly. In fact, we pay more attention to the tempering of children's personality and psychology, and how to make children stronger and braver in the face of difficulties.
If children's age permits, they can go to school by bus independently, which can exercise their independence and let them learn to be responsible for themselves.
Whether the family raises boys or girls. There are always endless words and endless troubles in my heart, but the road to growing up with my children is naturally full of happiness. Only parents should cultivate excellent boys and girls and pay attention to different education and methods.
Summary:
Boys bear a lot of social responsibilities. If boys want to succeed and become the pride of their parents, it is impossible to change from children to adults without a series of education. Therefore, on the issue of raising children, we must start from an early age. Only by adhering to the following principles can children become indomitable men.