1, set an example.
Children's imitation ability is super strong. According to incomplete statistics, in primary school, fathers are mostly children's idols, and in children's eyes, they are a symbol of "omnipotent". It is undoubtedly the most scientific and correct to grasp the specific period of children and set an example. The power of example is infinite. Parents should make full use of the power of example to guide their children in the first journey of life and establish a correct outlook on life and values.
2. Communicate more and command less.
Nobody likes being ordered. This is human nature, deep into the bone marrow, even children. Respect is mutual. Don't tell your children what to do just because you are a parent. Maybe your children will obey your orders, but most of them are disgusted. Parents can try to change. When some parents see their children playing, they often say, "It's not time to do homework." . If you say, "It's time, shouldn't you be doing your homework?" I believe the expression of the latter should be better.
3. More guidance, less reprimand.
Nowadays, children have strong self-esteem, and reprimanding is likely to hurt their self-esteem. In fact, the more you respect your child, the stronger your child's self-esteem will be, and your child will pay more attention to responding to your respect by paying attention to his words and deeds. For mistakes in principle, in fact, parents can also talk to their children in an equal, formal and serious way, inform them of the dangers, and negotiate and formulate punishment measures.
4. convince the child with reason.
Children use a lot of water every time they wash their hands and bathe. After many times of communication, it has no effect. You know, if you waste more water, children in some places may have no water to drink. Do you know how painful it is without water? So, don't think your child is unreasonable, but you don't explain the truth from his point of view.
5. Watch the video of the negative textbook to let the children feel intuitively.
In order to deepen children's explanation of the dangers of wasting water, friends took their children to watch the video of water resources in China. Especially, the depiction of children's lives in water-deficient areas surprised and regretted the children, and strengthened their determination not to waste water.