1. Solve problems with children. Adolescent children are eager to grow up and be independent. Most people think they are adults and have the ability to solve their own problems. Their parents can neither interfere with them nor stand idly by, for they have insufficient social experience and limited ability to solve problems. The best way is to face the problem with your child, maintain respect for him, and let him feel that he has a certain dominance in handling things. You can discuss the solution, or give your child a chance to try and make mistakes on the premise of ensuring safety. Some children succeed, we can encourage them and discuss with them whether the solution we originally envisaged will be better; Some children have failed, so we must never hurt their self-esteem. You should find out what he did well to encourage him and help him analyze the reasons for his failure.

Parents should give psychological training to their children. Parents can let their children often remind themselves with labels, write the word "control anger" on desks, walls and books to remind themselves to get rid of the habit of getting angry easily, or say something like "calm down" and "don't get angry" in their hearts when the anger is high but has not yet erupted, which can also alleviate the children's mood to some extent.

Parents are the best teachers for their children, but many parents will only instill truth when educating their children, but they will chase dramas all day and play mobile phones all night. If you are such a parent, even if you dry up your saliva, your children won't listen to a word, because you didn't do it yourself. Words and deeds, many parents only do words and deeds, but example is the most important. Many parents give full play to their words and deeds, but they don't want to spend a little time on their role models. Children's character, conduct and so on are mostly influenced by their parents. Even as adults, we have more or less the shadow of our parents in dealing with people.