1. Set an example: As parents, we should first set an example for our children, respect the elderly and care for their children. Let children see how parents respect the old and love the young from an early age, thus influencing them subtly.

2. Family education: In daily life, educate children to respect their elders and care for their children. We can cultivate the habit of caring for others by telling some stories about respecting the elderly and loving the young, or by involving children in family activities.

3. Social practice: Encourage children to participate in some volunteer activities, such as visiting the elderly in nursing homes, helping the widowed elderly, and letting children learn to respect the elderly and love the young in practical actions.

4. School education: In school, teachers can carry out some activities about respecting the old and loving the young, such as theme class meetings and speech contests, so that students can learn how to respect the old and love the young in class.

5. Media education: guide children to watch some educational film and television works, such as Lei Feng, Miss Prairie Hero, etc., so that children can learn the quality of respecting the old and loving the young.

6. Parent-child communication: communicate with children more, understand their thoughts and feelings, guide them to establish correct values, and let them understand the importance of respecting the elderly and loving the young.

7. Praise and encouragement: When children show the behavior of respecting the old and loving the young in their lives, they should be praised and encouraged to make them feel that their behavior is worthy of recognition.

8. Cultivate empathy: educate children to think from the perspective of others, understand the feelings of their elders, and care about their needs, so as to better respect the elderly and love the young.

9. Summarize regularly: Review and summarize your performance in respecting the elderly, loving the young and caring for the children regularly, so that you can realize your progress and shortcomings in this respect, so as to improve better.

10. patient guidance: it takes a process to cultivate children's quality of respecting the elderly and loving the young. Parents should have enough patience and gradually guide their children to form good habits.