If a child wants to be a healthy person, he must first have a sound personality, which is supported by internal spirit. This is also the charm of girls when they grow up. Talent and charm are two concepts. Therefore, as parents, we can't just focus on cultivating children's talents, but ignore the more important cultivation of children's inner charm in this cultivation process. Talented people don't necessarily know how to be a man, don't necessarily have the correct three views, and therefore don't necessarily have achievements.