It is the father's fault that the child is not well educated. Educating students is not strict, which is laziness as a teacher It is wrong to be a child without studying hard; When I was young, I refused to work hard and study hard. What can you do when you are old?
2. "It's your father's fault that you don't teach." In just a few words, the responsibility of educating children is very clear. The first person responsible for children's education is the father. The ancients thought that it was of course "the father's fault" that children did not receive a good education.
3. "Family education" is the education of parents or elders at home. Parents are children's first teachers, and almost all children's early education should be their responsibility. Therefore, family education is the most basic education and is often called "rooted education". A child without a good tutor, no matter how excellent his school education is, can hardly achieve great success in his life because he has no good foundation. It's like a piece of paper with many marks on it. It is undoubtedly extremely difficult to draw beautiful pictures on it.
4. "Confucius didn't know how to scold, and Ceng Zi didn't know how to get angry. "This is a famous saying handed down from ancient China. This family style is the result of its positive influence on the family atmosphere. If the family atmosphere has a negative impact, the opposite will happen. Then, there are losers at home. Who is to blame? The ancients believed that, of course, it was "the father's fault, raising but not teaching." "The' father' here only refers to the father, so where is the mother's responsibility? This is because men were respected in ancient society, and women were less educated, so they could only support their children. Most of the responsibility for educating children fell on their fathers. It's time to abandon the dross of the ancient patriarchal ideology that men are superior to women, and to understand "father" here as "father's parents", which is what we usually call "parents". The practical significance of this sentence should be: it is the fault of parents that they have not educated their children well.