Jessica Hester Hsuan, a popular guest in the third season,
Returning as an "assistant to the village head",
Return to the public eye.
Fat Xuan's curly hair is gone, but it has grown taller.
Speak and do things more calmly,
Although there are not many appearances,
But every time I do a task,
Still so hearty and generous, doing things cleanly and pleasing.
I remember when I chased dad 3,
I once talked about Jessica Hester Hsuan with my friend Xiao Xia.
Although every baby in this reality show,
Each has its own strengths and advantages.
But we both became die-hard fans of Pang Xuan.
He is warm and cheerful,
Although he is a typical grumpy child,
Usually, if you don't agree with a word,
But when he is crying, he can listen to adults.
Not stubborn and selfish, opinionated but not overbearing,
Know how to take care of people around you,
Obviously a foodie.
But in the link of "Guarding Ice Cream",
I can still swallow my saliva and not eat ice cream.
These rare qualities,
Obviously it comes from the power of family education.
Children of this age,
One of my best skills is imitation.
The way his family raised him,
Parents' code of conduct and daily behavior habits,
It will inevitably have a subtle influence on children.
Xuanxuan's mother,
It's Ran Yingying blushing.
People on the internet are quite critical of her image and dress.
But this dazzling fashion hot mom,
In fact, she is a veritable good mother.
Growing up in a single-parent family,
I have been a real schoolmaster since I was a child.
After graduating from a famous university in Beijing, he worked in CCTV.
Boxing champion Zou Shiming is away all the year round.
She gave up her thriving career,
Concentrate on teaching children and live in order.
People often say,
Behind every bear Haizi, there is a bear parent.
So, a happy family,
A child who performs well in all aspects,
Standing behind is a qualified mother full of wisdom.
Because, those who spend the most time with children,
Usually the role of mother,
Her quality determines her child's future.
Pang Xuan was rated as a "professional eater" in "Daddy 3".
It is a model of good food. Don't be picky about food.
Da Jun's father complained:
"Children nowadays are tired of eating one meal."
Several other children were also told by their father that they didn't like eating.
However, Pang Xuan is a special case.
No one has to worry about eating. They have an excellent appetite.
At Baye Academy in Xishuangbanna,
Fat Xuan filled the meal, but forgot to cook.
But I still eat sweet and delicious,
The most monotonous white rice,
I was stunned by his delicious food.
But as anyone who has watched "Mom is Superman" knows,
Fat Xuan's good habit of eating is not innate.
But my mother ran Yingying cultivated it bit by bit with her patience and wisdom.
Xiaopangxuan, like other children,
There have also been stages of picky eaters, emaciation and poor eating.
Once,
Ran Yingying cooked a meal and asked Xuanxuan to have dinner together.
However, Jessica Hester Hsuan's mind is on the game, and he is very reluctant.
He tugged at his mother's clothes,
Crying and playing games.
In order not to affect the younger brother who is eating well,
Ran Yingying carried Pang Xuan into the kitchen.
Squat down and tell him gently and firmly:
If you think that because you cried,
I'll make you skip meals and play games,
Then I'm sorry, it's no use crying like this.
Xuanxuan soon calmed down,
Stop crying and go to eat.
Another time,
Grandma Jessica Hester Hsuan bought a cake after her birthday.
Xuanxuan insisted on the first bite of cake.
Ran Yingying was adamant and said no.
Jessica Hester Hsuan opened the scroll search mode and began to cry.
Jean valjean ying ying don't worry not angered, walked over to say:
Xuanxuan, you know you can't,
If you must cry,
Then cry slowly. Come to me when you are calm.
Then, turn around and leave to do something else.
Jessica Hester Hsuan couldn't get over it,
I cried all the way and insisted on eating cake.
The whole process lasted more than ten minutes.
Ran Yingying is busy with her own affairs.
While gently dealing with the entanglement of Jessica Hester Hsuan,
Not only did she not lose her temper,
On the contrary, it has always been calm and gentle.
Take your time, always stand firm and show your attitude.
When Jessica Hester Hsuan wastes food,
She communicates with the child in a way that he can understand.
Don't reprimand don't command, but put the facts and reason:
"You know the money we spend on food,
Where did they all come from? It was dad who hit him. "
Jessica Hester Hsuan worships his father the most,
Knowing dad's efforts in boxing,
Hearing this, he nodded silently.
It also explains the hard-won food to some extent.
Dealing with the "Xiong Haizi" who has a flamboyant personality and loves to lose his temper,
Ran Yingying is gentle and rational, loves children but is not used to it.
Neither obliterate the repressed child's personality,
You can also guide them according to the situation and let them learn to follow the rules and grow up happily.
Someone once said:
The growth of children is the mother's success, but also the mother's failure.
Very good family, they are all mothers,
In today's domestic environment of "widowed parenting, widowed marriage",
This is an indisputable fact.
Sister Liu from the former office,
The husband works in other places,
The couple live in two places all the year round.
My son was basically brought up by Sister Liu alone.
Now, after her son finished his graduate studies at Ivy League University,
Back to work in Beijing,
Working in the financial industry, earning millions a year,
Is a young and promising elite.
When her son was still in high school,
Sister Liu is busy with work and sometimes brings her son to the office.
Review your lessons while waiting for your mother.
Once,
Sister Liu's son is watching with relish with an encyclopedia.
All the colleagues in the office sighed and praised him for his rich knowledge.
His son replied:
"I don't think what this is. I read the translated version.
My mother read the whole set of original English.
When my English is better,
I can catch up with mom. "
It turns out that although I am very busy at work,
Sister Liu has always maintained the motivation to explore new knowledge.
She likes reading and studying,
My son prefers science and engineering,
But she is engaged in a civilian job.
Also dabble in science, engineering, science, computer and other fields of knowledge.
She developed profound knowledge,
My son comes from astronomy, geography,
When it comes to social feelings, talk about everything.
Mother and son always talk, and there is never a generation gap.
Over the years, her relationship with her son has been both a teacher and a friend.
My son trusts him, and every important decision in life,
Will take the initiative to ask her advice.
After studying in the United States,
My son didn't choose a high-paying job in new york or Hongkong.
Voluntary return to Beijing,
Just to get closer to mom,
Spend more time with mom.
Children who maintain a healthy and intimate relationship with their mothers,
Everywhere you go, you are a person with strong psychology.
Can maintain positive energy to cope with work and enjoy life.
As a mother who lives with her children day and night,
How you talk and do things, how you behave,
Your attitude and words and deeds,
Children will have a panoramic view and then follow the trend involuntarily.
Mother is gentle to others, and children will naturally not be rude;
Mother loves reading and sports, so children can naturally enjoy their study time quietly;
If the mother doesn't complain about peace of mind, the child will naturally not be grumpy;
The mother is full of positive energy and vitality every day, and the child is naturally sunny and optimistic.
After all, mother is the core competitiveness of children.
Some time ago, I saw a news.
It tells the story of a child who came to the museum with two pebbles and an apology letter.
It turns out that the class has organized a spring outing before.
Children like to collect pebbles,
He stole two pebbles from the exhibition hall.
When the child's mother found out,
Instead of adopting the "connivance attitude of children who are too young to understand",
But to take the children back to the museum,
Ask the child to bring a carefully written letter of apology.
Solemnly apologize to the staff.
After a child makes a mistake, parents can criticize,
But after the criticism, tell him the correct way.
In order to really avoid the wrong behavior from happening again.
There is a proverb in English:
A good mother is worth a hundred teachers.
Excellent mother,
Will seriously explore the growth law of children,
Understand the uniqueness of children,
Provide him with continuous support and companionship.
No good boy can do it overnight.
There is no bear Haizi for no reason,
If the mother's role-playing is successful, the child's future will also be successful.
Author: Angela
(This article comes from: Baidu Baby knows that Uncle Kai tells stories v)
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