Because of busy work, many parents leave their children with grandparents or grandparents, which also leads to the present situation of intergenerational education, especially in some rural areas, which will account for a large proportion. Many old people feel that their children are very good and successful, so they feel that their experiences are rich, but their thinking is different from that of young people. It is precisely because of the participation of old people that it is more difficult for young people to implement their education methods.

First, the educational concept is different.

The way of education of the older generation is definitely different from that of the young people today. Some old people have never even read books, so their educational concepts are relatively backward and their thoughts are relatively conservative. They always trap their children and themselves in this small world, which may affect their values for a long time.

Second, spoil children too much.

Old people usually love their children more. Even if their conditions are not very good, they will scrimp and save to meet their children's requirements. They will pay special attention to their children's affairs, but the overindulgence of the elderly is likely to cause their children to become selfish. When parents make demands on their children, the elderly may agree that the children are still young. This situation can easily lead to weak self-care ability of children.

Third, when children make mistakes, the old people at home wipe their bottoms.

It is inevitable that children will make mistakes, but some old people will boldly take the mistakes on themselves after their children make mistakes. Apologize for the child, and tell the child and grandparents that I will help you solve it. This behavior is actually very unreasonable for children. In the long run, children can easily learn to shirk their responsibilities, do not know how to bear them, and always want to live under the protection of the elderly.

The problem of intergenerational education has always existed in our lives. Both sides hope that children can thrive, sit down and discuss the education with the elderly at home, and we should persuade them to let go where they should.