A tolerant person is broad-minded and considerate. It is human nature to make mistakes. Parents should educate their children to be tolerant and kind to others, so as to unite their classmates and create a happy life and study atmosphere. Hu is a very obedient child at the scene of his godson, but he just likes to complain. He went to the teacher for a little thing, "teacher, my friend bullied me, so he knocked me down", "teacher, I spilled watercolor ink on my book, and my book can't stand it" and so on. One day, the students are playing games. Suddenly, I accidentally stepped on Hu's foot. Seeing a big black footprint on the white sneakers she just bought, Hu ran angrily to her side and stepped on her back with her foot. When the teacher asked Hu why he did this, he confidently told the teacher, "My mother said I can't be bullied by others. When others hit me, I will hit others. Tong Tong stepped on me, of course I stepped on her. " According to experts, tolerance is a virtue. Tolerance can make people gentle, eliminate many unnecessary contradictions and turn hostility into friendship. A tolerant person will always be welcomed by people everywhere, because he can handle all kinds of interpersonal relationships, adapt to different environments quickly, cooperate harmoniously with others and give full play to his potential. Many great men in ancient China attached great importance to the quality of tolerance. For example, Confucius once said that a real person should have five virtues such as tolerance, respect, honesty, sensitivity and generosity, and he put tolerance at the top of the five virtues. Zhuangzi, a philosopher, said that a saint should have a broad mind that embraces the whole world. Lin Zexu, a modern national hero, pointed out that "there are hundreds of rivers, and tolerance is great". If a person is tolerant, his personality will be as great as the sea. Nowadays, the society is more organized and open, which requires people to have tolerant qualities. In a society with strong organization and high socialization of production, social progress and the success of personal undertakings require people to cooperate with each other, and cooperation should be based on tolerance. Tolerance is the "lubricant" for people to communicate and cooperate. In addition, today's society is more open. With the acceleration of social change, new things emerge one after another, social values tend to be diversified, and people's personalities are more distinct. In this case, a person can accept changes and new things only if he has the quality of tolerance, and can tolerate diversified value orientations and people's unique personality. Tolerance is of great significance to the development of children's personality and the establishment of good interpersonal relationships. Tolerant children are often kind-hearted, gentle, lovable and supported. Children who lack tolerance are often eccentric, easy to go to extremes and difficult to get close to others. Therefore, parents should teach their children tolerance and cultivate their broad minds. Suggest parents' coup. Parents can cultivate their children to be broad-minded and narrow-minded. For the sake of children's happiness and future success, parents should teach their children to learn tolerance. Secret 1: Parents should be broad-minded and set an example. Gandhi, an Indian national hero, recalled his growing process and said, "It was my father's lofty tolerance that saved me." Gandhi was born into a prime minister's family in a small kingdom in San Francisco. He has been a spoiled kid since he was a child, and his personality is not cheerful. He is obedient to his parents, sensitive to things around him and has a strong self-esteem. Once laughed at, he will cry at once. When I was criticized by the teacher at school, I was so sad that I couldn't stand it. When I was a teenager, I became addicted to cigarettes because I was curious. Later, I developed into stealing money from my brother and retainer to buy cigarettes, and I got deeper and deeper. Later, he felt it was shameful to steal other people's money and smoke behind his parents' backs. As soon as he remembered it, he felt ashamed and miserable. He even thought about suicide. When he finally couldn't stand the painful torture, he wrote the whole process of his depravity in his diary, summoned up the courage to give it to his father, hoping to get severe criticism and punishment from his father to alleviate his inner pain. After reading it, my father was very angry and sad. But the father didn't blame him, just shed tears sadly and stared at his son for a long time. Gandhi was greatly stimulated when he saw his father's sad appearance, and he felt more remorse, guilt and remorse, which deeply failed his father's expectations of himself. From then on, he made up his mind to completely correct his mistakes. Makarenko, an educator of operation tips, once pointed out that parents "should behave themselves before starting to educate their children". If parents want their children to learn tolerance, they must first have the quality of tolerance. If parents are narrow-minded, ignore other people's opinions, are used to imposing their own will on others, and don't give people a chance to correct their mistakes, and argue endlessly about trivial matters, how can children learn to be tolerant? Parents are tolerant and generous, don't haggle over every ounce, and get along well with neighbors and colleagues. Children will learn to deal with their classmates like their parents, and they will also become tolerant and kind. Tip 2: Teach children an example of "no one is perfect" Peisi Chen told his mother Zhao Lihua that there is a "bully student" in their class. This "bully student" is often blocked at the door of the classroom, and Peisi Chen and other children are not allowed to go out. One rainy day, Zhao Lihua drove Peisi Chen home. When Zhao Lihua came to the school gate with an umbrella, he found Peisi Chen's "overlord" anxiously looking around the classroom gate. It turns out that he forgot to bring his umbrella today. Zhao Lihua said, "Children, get in the car together. I'll take you home by the way. " Peisi Chen hurriedly winked at his mother, meaning not to take him. Zhao Lihua pretended not to see it, insisted that Peisi Chen call this classmate in the car and sent him home. When the overlord arrived home, he happily said thank you to Zhao Lihua and Peisi Chen. When he got home, Zhao Lihua told the children, "Everyone has shortcomings, and everyone has loveliness. Don't hate a classmate because he has shortcomings. You should make more friendly contacts with him, strive to be his good friend and help him correct his shortcomings and deficiencies. " Operational Tips Parents should let their children know that gold is not enough, no one is perfect, and everyone has shortcomings. When getting along with classmates and friends, there is absolutely no need to seek perfection and blame. You should learn to seek common ground while reserving differences. There is no need to haggle over the shortcomings of friends. What students say and do when they are in a bad mood should be fair and reasonable. Give people more tolerance and understanding, but also bring themselves a good mood and make their personality more perfect. Tip 3: Cultivate children's awareness of being kind to others. There is such a child who doesn't know what the echo is. Once, he stood alone in the valley and shouted, "Hey! Hey! " The nearby mountain immediately reflected his echo: "Hello! Hey! " He called again, "Who are you?" The echo replied, "Who are you?" He screamed again: "You are a big fool!" Immediately from the mountain came the "answer" that "you are a big fool". The child was very angry and scolded Dashan. However, Dashan responded rudely. The child came home angrily and told his mother about it. Mother said to him, "Son, that's what you did wrong." If you treat it respectfully, it will treat you well. "The child said," Then I will go tomorrow and say something nice. ""Yes, "said his mother." In life, no matter men, women and children, if you are kind to others, others will be kind to you; If we are rude to others, we will never be treated well. Therefore, you must remember that only by being kind to others will others be kind to you! The clever mother taught her children how to treat others properly. Once children learn to be kind to others, they learn to be tolerant, because children already have a friendly heart and a tolerant heart. Then, children will naturally tolerate others in their daily lives. Parents should let their children know that others are their own shadows, and being kind to others means being kind to themselves. To be more understanding and tolerant of others is actually to support and help yourself. Tip 4: Use stories to educate children to learn tolerance. Once, my mother took Zhou Xiaoping to a parent-child activity organized by the school. When the teacher arranged for the children to complete the activity of building blocks in pairs, Zhou Xiaoping refused to cooperate with a boy named Benben beside her. When her mother asked her why, she frowned and said to her mother, "I didn't work with him." He broke my pencil. "Mother felt that Zhou Xiaoping was wrong, so she told her the story of" A humble apology ":General Lian Po repeatedly made meritorious military service and refused to accept Lin Xiangru's occupation of the upper position, hoping to add insult to it. Lin Xiangru, on the other hand, put national interests first and repeatedly avoided humiliation. Lian Po was deeply ashamed when he learned of the incident, so he pleaded guilty and sighed, "I didn't know the general was so lenient." The two eventually became awkward friends. Finally, my mother told Zhou Xiaoping, "Only those who know how to be tolerant can truly win the respect of others. Ben accidentally broke your pencil. You must forgive him. What a good boy. " Zhou Xiaoping nodded seriously after hearing this. Operation tip stories are an important means to educate children, and there are short stories at home and abroad that reflect the quality of tolerance, which parents can use to educate their children. Through stories, children can also be taught to consider problems from the standpoint and angle of others, which is helpful for children to understand other people's thoughts and behaviors, let children feel the pain of others, and stimulate their tolerance and kindness.