It's normal for this to happen. After all, children grow up day by day and know more about the world. They are no longer children who only listen to their parents. They began to have their own. On second thought, I began to disobey my parents. However, some parents said that children's temper is getting bigger and bigger, and it doesn't matter if they don't obey, and sometimes they even refute their parents. How can we not stop this rude and uncivilized behavior? But before solving this problem, have parents ever thought about why their children's temper is getting worse and worse, and why they don't listen to their parents?

In fact, I encountered the same problem when I was educating my children before. Children grow up and have more and more opinions. No matter what they say, the children won't listen, which makes me very angry. How did his parents teach him?

Children don't want to listen to their parents. What is the cause of irritability?

Parents should learn to control their emotions. Nowadays, with the rapid development of society, the life pressure of adults is actually increasing. In addition, having children at home is definitely more stressful, and these pressures can easily affect parents' mood. Sometimes when something happens to a child, parents will "volcano" and pour all their emotions into the child, which will easily make the child rebellious. Therefore, the author suggests that parents must separate work from life, especially when facing children, and learn to control their emotions. Only by maintaining good communication with children will children choose to listen to their parents.

Learn to communicate with children. Many times, there will be "head-on confrontation" at home. Mostly because of the lack of communication between parents and children before. Parents are always opinionated and insist on educating their children with their own educational methods, but children are also very disdainful and completely ignore their parents' feelings. ? One person, two people don't communicate like this, there is definitely no way to solve the problem. Therefore, parents must learn to communicate with their children, understand their real needs, and then make corresponding education plans according to their needs, which is good for both parents and children.

Let the children play freely. If parents always blindly let their children develop according to their own route and don't give them room to work hard, it won't do. Every child is born to love freedom, even if they need the help of their parents. But as parents, they should not be deprived of the space for independent thinking and free development.