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A woman surnamed Yang in Shandong discovered her cheating behavior after marrying her husband, and told her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law said that "men are sexy".

The mother-in-law even agreed that her son would take the pregnant mistress home. Ms. Yang committed suicide by taking poison in a rage and was paralyzed after being rescued. Since then, she has been abused by her mother-in-law, from a healthy person to a "skeleton" of 40 pounds.

Most netizens said that they were ruined by this vicious mother-in-law.

Although there were rumors later that the news was old news hype, we were not sure about the authenticity of the news and did not discuss the news itself. Today we will discuss the importance of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in marriage.

It is undeniable that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in any marriage also directly affects the relationship between husband and wife.

I have read such a sentence: a good mother-in-law is the mediator of marriage, and a bad mother-in-law is the executioner of marriage.

I'm impressed.

To marry a man is to marry his family. If you want a good marriage, you should not only study good men at home and abroad, but also study your in-laws.

1, a bad mother-in-law often ruins a good marriage.

In You Against the Current, the sweet love between the man Yang Guang and his wife envied the audience. After his wife gave birth to her son, Yang Guang was happier.

Yang Guang's mother is very strict. She always keeps Yang Guang in line with her father and is also very strict with her daughter-in-law.

Daughter-in-law has been patient again and again, but due to her mother-in-law's unscientific parenting style, their relationship has dropped sharply. In order to get back at her daughter-in-law, the evil mother-in-law lured the wolf into the room and brought Bai and her son together, completely ignoring the daughter-in-law who just gave birth to a grandson, which almost led to her son's divorce.

TV series originated from life, and such wonderful mother-in-law is not uncommon in reality. Sometimes, mother-in-law's intervention in marriage will not only lead to family breakdown, but even lead to death.

Shi Momei, a 28-year-old Fujian woman, left home with her two sons, aged three and six. That night, the police found the bodies of three people in the waters of Shazhou.

The woman left a "suicide note" in the circle of friends, mentioned the contradiction with her mother-in-law, and expressed the idea of suicide, signed as "the last stroke of Shi Momei".

Many people think that this mother is so cruel that she committed suicide with her young children.

The fact is that my mother had two caesarean sections, and her mother-in-law never helped her. She only gives her daughter-in-law soup, noodles and vegetables three times a day.

Because of malnutrition, Bauer often cries without milk, and Dabao is always naughty. She coaxed the little and the big by herself, and often turned around day and night.

Mother-in-law often invites several old ladies to play cards at home and talk loudly, regardless of the daughter-in-law's hard work with the children and needs a rest.

The daughter-in-law gave advice to her mother-in-law and was scolded: "I don't even know how heavy it is for me to have children!" "

A person with two children, busy, exhausted. My mother-in-law didn't understand or help, and she was cynical.

No one is born strong, and the daughter-in-law is also struggling for two children. Daughter-in-law thinks things will be better if the children are older. She gave birth to a second child for this family, and her mother-in-law can have more understanding and care.

As a result, my mother-in-law has not changed, and I feel that my daughter-in-law should do everything for this family.

It is a tragedy that a daughter-in-law who is heartbroken and hopeless in life can only leave with her children.

2. Bad mother-in-law is tireless in destroying marriage, while good mother-in-law can escort the happiness of the family.

Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing have been having an affair for thirteen years because their mother-in-law didn't approve them.

Mother-in-law despises Yi Nengjing, and the couple are not here to propose marriage. Yi Nengjing didn't even have a wedding.

After the marriage, her mother-in-law called Yi Nengjing a "little singer", and her disdain was beyond words. According to the media, her mother-in-law once let Yi Nengjing live alone in the studio. Even though she gave birth to her son Harry Jr., the situation has not changed.

After the divorce, Yi Nengjing lived with her son for four years, until she met Qin Hao, the "the only thrill" who could satisfy her little girl's wishes, and carefully planned a warm and romantic wedding.

Yi Nengjing recalled that before she fell in love with Qin Hao, she was afraid that her mother-in-law's accountant would be older than she used to be, so she had no confidence.

I thought my mother-in-law would say to her, "You are so much older than my son, let him go!" " Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law took her hand and said softly, "Haozi is very headstrong, so you should tolerate him more."

Her mother-in-law also told Qin Hao, "Since you chose Yi Nengjing, you should be responsible for her. You can afford energy, but Yi Nengjing can't. Once you choose marriage, don't regret it. "

Once Yi Nengjing was filming, Qin Hao's parents visited the crew. They saw Yi Nengjing exhausted from his work. Qin Hao's father said, "Xiao Jing, go home. You ask them how much it costs, and we will return it to him. "

One side of Qin Hao's mother nodding, talking just take out a cellular phone to call Qin Hao.

Yi Nengjing, who lacked fatherly love since childhood, went to work alone at the age of fourteen. At that moment, Yi Nengjing really felt love. Only then did she know that people can relax and not be so tight.

She has publicly expressed her gratitude for meeting such a good in-laws more than once, and it is a happy thing to be a family with them.

An understanding mother-in-law can guide her daughter-in-law into the family and is a lubricant for a happy marriage.

A clever mother-in-law will not be an enemy of her daughter-in-law. On the contrary, she will make her daughter-in-law feel respect, warmth and trust. Daughter-in-law will naturally give back more love, so that the whole family will be more cohesive.

Mother-in-law hides the appearance of marriage in her three views.

In the story of a teenager, a boy complained that his mother asked him to do housework and forced him to learn to cook. He sighed helplessly that he was still a teenager, and finally begged his mother not to force him to do housework.

Mother replied firmly, "You must do it." The boy has no room for bargaining at all.

The boy was unconvinced and retorted, "How old am I now? Isn't my main task to study? "

"If boys can do housework, they can take care of themselves, learn to understand the hard work of others to take care of themselves, realize the sense of accomplishment and happiness brought by taking care of others, and contribute to their future lovers to do housework."

"In the future, your other half is also a beautiful child. She is also the darling of her parents. Why should she be wronged with you? Why does she have to do all the housework? She has to work, so it is difficult to take care of the children. Doing housework now will be responsible for the family in the future. "

"As a boy, you are very handsome, but if you can get a study and a kitchen in the future. Then your future must be very happy, and the people with you will be very happy. "

After the program was broadcast, netizens left messages:

"The son educated by such a mother must be excellent!"

"Aunt, you still need a daughter-in-law!"

Marriage is not just a waltz for two people, but a dance for two families, and our dance steps are all learned in the process of growing up.

Some mother-in-law can see your efforts and will urge her son to pay. And some mother-in-law thinks that your contribution is just right, you must do it, and his son is worth it.

The feelings of being with the sons of these two kinds of mother-in-law are diametrically opposed, and no one wants to choose the latter.

Parents are the textbooks of our marriage.

Marriage is not only a matter for two people, but also a combination of two families.

Being born in a family is the soil for cultivating one's outlook on life. Decades of parents' spiritual concepts and living standards will leave traces on their children.

Judging a man's good temper is unreliable and irresponsible. We only need to walk into his family, look at his parents' words and deeds, and understand his parents' thoughts, and we can understand most of them.

If your husband has grown into a responsible man from a family under the cultivation of your future in-laws, then you are lucky.

If he is well "protected" and taken care of, then you just take over his parents and assume the role of nanny, and there is no happiness at all.

Therefore, girls must look at each other's parents before starting marriage, and there are the answers you want.