During the period of love, boys take care of girls in every possible way, making them feel happy. ..... However, some boys are not gentle enough with their girlfriends. Whether a girl chooses to break up at this time needs to be analyzed and confirmed from three aspects: her boyfriend's personality characteristics, the emotional state between them and the degree of communication between them.

First, according to the boyfriend's personality characteristics.

A boy in love must be full of love for his girlfriend. However, not all boys can be gentle and considerate. ..... Some boys are more straightforward and don't beat around the bush, so they are not so gentle when they associate with their girlfriends. ..... However, their love for their girlfriends is beyond doubt. You can't break up with such a boyfriend.

Secondly, judge according to the emotional state between two people.

Lovers should show tenderness and consideration. ..... However, for lovers who have deep feelings for each other, formal existence is meaningless. Such lovers can still be kind and love each other even if they are not gentle and considerate. ..... So, if two people have been in love for a long time and have deep feelings, even if the boyfriend is not so gentle and considerate, he can't break up with him.

Third, make final confirmation according to the degree of communication between them.

For new lovers, if boys are not gentle and considerate to their girlfriends, the two sides are likely to break up. ..... However, for lovers who have been in contact for a long time and know each other well, there is no need to prove anything by formal existence ... Such lovers do not need to be gentle and considerate all the time, nor do they need to break up because their boyfriends are not gentle and considerate enough for them.