1. Keep calm: Don't lose your calm because a girl disobeys orders. Keep a calm attitude and avoid emotional reactions.
2. Understand the reasons: Try to understand the reasons why girls don't obey orders. It may be because she has different views on the activity, or there are personal reasons that make her unwilling to participate. Understanding her thoughts and concerns through communication will help to deal with this problem better.
3. Communication and negotiation: Communicate openly with the girl, let her know your plans and goals for the activity, and try to find a solution that can meet the interests of both parties. You can try to persuade her to understand the importance and benefits of participating in activities, while respecting her personal choices and opinions.
4. Help: If the above methods still fail to solve the problem, you can ask teachers, school administrators or other class committees for help. They may have more experience and resources to help deal with this problem.
5. Make reasonable rules: If there are many girls who don't obey orders in the class, you can consider making some reasonable rules and disciplines to ensure the smooth progress of the activities. This will not only help solve the problem, but also prevent similar problems from happening again.
In a word, as a sports committee member, we should keep a positive, patient and understanding attitude, communicate and negotiate effectively with girls, and seek appropriate help to solve problems.