In our study, we always shout happy study, easy study and happy physical and mental study every day, but do we really feel that our study in the student stage is as happy, relaxed and happy as our slogan? Is it really easy for us to accept knowledge? Is the way of learning useful to us?
As students, we believe that we will have an evaluation in our hearts. In the eyes of parents, they think that learning is not hard. It's easy to attend class and then go home to do your homework. There is no need to earn money to support the family and no social pressure. Why are you so tired?
But how many parents really understand the pain and pressure of students. They all think that others will not do it from their own unilateral point of view. Without that kind of education, don't try to make any comments.
The current education is completely different from the previous education, and there are innovations at every stage of education, and now it is the same as before. It can't be said that the previous education method is not suitable for modern times, only that there is a more convenient education method now.
How can we let children decompress correctly?
1, appropriate encouragement should first strictly stop some principled mistakes, and for some unprincipled mistakes that do not involve any property losses, let him know the mistakes appropriately. We should maintain an encouraging attitude towards the psychological blow to children.
Parents should not be hit again after being hit psychologically. A double blow is likely to leave a shadow in the child's mind. Every parent loves their children, and every parent doesn't want their children to hate themselves, but many parents just can't handle this parent-child relationship well. They may be a very qualified parent, but he may not be the first educator of a qualified child.
Parents don't need any courses or take any exams to train this child. This is also the terrible thing about family education, a good parent. Will give this child unparalleled family education, of course, an unqualified parent will bring a lifetime of pain to the child.
2, learn to understand the most important point, our parents should learn to understand children, learn to empathize, and should not think that all subjective thinking often leads to greater mistakes. In the matter of children's education, no one can pay for his mistakes, and no one can be responsible for his mistakes. There is nothing wrong with this matter.
Parents play a very important role in the process of attention. You must learn to understand children, learn to understand that children are tired of learning, but learning is bitter. Children often hold their breath. Learning is a boring process, so is accepting knowledge. He doesn't have much entertainment. It's just a constant knowledge transfer and knowledge reception. Parents should understand their children more and understand their difficulties.