Parents should improve their abilities and let their children believe in themselves. In a state of trust, children will happily accept suggestions. This is a kind of leadership, which helps children set goals, motivate children and support them. This is the right way to do it.
I think education varies from person to person, and there is no single way, because different families have different genes and organisms. Therefore, your formulation is just one of many family education.
First of all, children who grow up in overly strict families tend to become timid. Because parents are too strong, children will be suppressed, reprimanded or educated with sticks if they are slightly wrong. Children may say a few words at first, which may lead to more serious consequences. Over time, children are always on tenterhooks at home, just like mice are afraid of cats.
Second, children may become more rebellious. Some children, in a strict family, can't compete with their parents when they are young, and their parents can temporarily suppress them. He is afraid on the surface, but he is not satisfied inside. At a certain stage, he will openly confront his parents. At this time, if he is forced to suppress him again, he may make radical moves, such as running away from home. Such children are often stubborn and grumpy.
Third, parents should be strict with their children, not demanding. Strictly speaking, parents should educate and guide their children to have a good personality, a correct view of right and wrong and good study and living habits. All these aspects need parents' patient education and guidance, and cannot be blindly forced.
Most parents of children with excellent grades are very strict. After all, there are not many children who are particularly conscious.
However, we cannot be strict blindly. We should communicate and let the children know why we must be strict in this matter. Otherwise, children will easily rebel and affect the parent-child relationship. Being a parent can be very painful.