Men have both natural temperament factors and acquired ingredients.

1. Create opportunities for him to play the role of "protector"

When I get home from work every day, I feel tired and want to sleep, but I still have to deal with my son's "entanglement", but I understand that it is unrealistic for him to understand your hard work at this stage. So I said to him gently, "Mom is tired. Can you lend me your shoulder?" My son unknown so, who was very interesting, tilted his head to one side, leaned his little shoulder on me and said seriously, "Mom, aren't you tired of leaning on my shoulder?" I squatted down, leaned my head gently on his shoulder and said appreciatively, "Yes! My son is a man and will protect his mother when he grows up. " The son grinned. My son will always be my "protector" in the future, proud!

You can be unhappy, but you can't lose your temper casually.

Some children tear, bite and lose their temper when they are unhappy. Once this kind of behavior becomes a habit, they will not know how to control it when something happens. I told my son, "You can say it when you are unhappy, but never lose your temper." But it needs more than just language. Therefore, I was careful not to lose my temper in front of the children. Take me for example, my son seldom makes trouble.

3, the consequences are good and bad.

Learn to bear the consequences when you are young, and you will be responsible when you grow up. I pay great attention to let my son consciously learn this in small things. For example, when my son throws a picture book on the ground when he is angry, I will never help him pick it up, nor will my family be allowed to pick it up. It doesn't matter if he refused to answer it at that time, just leave the book on the ground. When he pestered me to tell a story, I said to him, "didn't you throw away the book?" Mom can't tell you. "At this time, my son began to worry, and quickly picked up the book himself.

Tip: Several expressions of men's plans:

Helpless. I often pretend to ask my son for help.

It's none of your business. Let him know that you can't do everything for him

Helpless. I want to do something as much as you, but I can wait.

Silence. Don't talk when you are unhappy, but don't lose your temper.

Laugh. Laugh like a child when you are happy, and keep a childlike innocence at all times.