What is a good kindergarten? In fact, it is very simple, that is, to give children a good kindergarten. Let me start with an example of my experience.
I attended the parent-child class of Yihe Garden with my children. At the end of the parent-child class, the teacher will hug the children one by one and say goodbye. One day, my child came running from far away and rushed to hug the teacher. He was so strong that the teacher sat on the ground and missed it. My child was a little at a loss, so the teacher got up quickly and gave him a hug without any evaluation or preaching.
At that time, I deeply felt the teacher's acceptance and love for the children. There are no such judgments in my mind, no should and shouldn't, and it is a natural and sincere acceptance. Since then, I have noticed that when my children hug the teacher, they always consciously wait for the teacher to be ready. Later, we are about to leave Haikou. On an accidental occasion, we met the teacher, and the child ran over and hugged the teacher. I know, this expression is only because the teacher has really respected him.
This case left a deep impression on me, and it is always very touching to recall. There is acceptance and love, and it flows in the relationship between teachers and children. Every life scene, that is, educational scene, has happened, seen, accepted and improved ... what an advanced education!
? Of course, there are no perfect people and teachers are not always so "right". When you get along with children, you sometimes "misunderstand" children. For example, once, the child cried because he didn't want to wear socks. In fact, it wasn't entirely because of socks. The child got up too early that day and was a little sleepy, so he didn't have the heart to deal with wearing socks. But the teacher didn't know that the child was sleepy. I saw the teacher let the child wear socks and the child cried. After one or two rounds, the teacher held the crying child who had not worn socks, and did not ask the child to wear socks again.
Yes, it seems like a little thing in life. Actually, it's not easy to do. Teachers are not unpredictable. What is commendable is that teachers can let go of their own perspective, see what happened, and leave room for "I may not know". Just like at the parent-child meeting in parent-child classes, teachers admit that sometimes they "misunderstand" children because they don't know enough about them, and teachers will gradually find suitable working methods for each child. This is humility, this is awe of life itself, and I have to admire: what a high-level education!
This is a good kindergarten. The examples I give are all trivial, yes, the casual trivial matters are the most obvious. The rhetoric on Gao Da is simple: respect children, let them develop freely, and bring them close to nature ... These words are easier said than done, so that they can experience them in the little things of life. I really only met them in Yihe Garden in Haikou.
Sincerely thank Jardine Garden and bless Jardine Garden!
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