The absolutely authoritative education mode adopts a high-handed policy towards children, which demands too much, restricts too much, lacks tolerance and pursues stick education. Children will be punished if they are slightly improper, and negation is greater than affirmation. This will easily lead to children's poor independence, poor autonomy, emotional instability, fear of rebellion, difficulty in concentrating, and inactive interest in and exploration of new things. The discipline of children under this kind of education will seriously constrain the development of children's personality.

2, affect physical and mental development

From the perspective of children's physical and mental development, the absolutely authoritative education method will make parents blindly safeguard their authority and require children to obey themselves absolutely. Parents lack positive feelings for their children, take more negative measures, such as corporal punishment, blame or neglect, and rarely communicate with their children. It is easy for children to lose their initiative and become extremely irritable, which hinders their psychological development and affects their physical and mental development.

The influence of doting education on children

1, affecting social development

Children under the mode of pampering education are generally self-willed and often show selfish side in many things. For example, if there are delicious and interesting things, they only know how to share them with one person and don't know how to share them with others. In addition, it will make children more timid, have no opinion, lack right and wrong, lack of love and so on. These are not conducive to children's social development.

2, hinder the development of all aspects of ability.

Parents who spoil and spoil their children like to put their children in an inappropriate position above everything else, which will easily lead to their lack of sense of responsibility and patience and their inadaptability to collective life. In addition, because children grow up in the greenhouse for a long time, it is easy to form a series of bad behavior habits and personalities, which is very unfavorable to the development of children's abilities in all aspects.

Ignore the influence of indifferent education methods on children

1, affecting behavior development

Parents who ignore indifferent education methods rarely give affirmation to their children, lack communication and understanding with them, and often ignore their feelings and ideas and turn a blind eye to them. This kind of family education can easily lead to children's emotional instability, withdrawn personality, indifference to others and poor control over things. , will have a direct impact on children's behavior development, and then affect their all-round development.

2. Affect the development of mental health.

Parents who neglect indifferent education methods, lack care for their children and opportunities for communication, which easily makes their children lack the lively and active personality characteristics of their peers. In early childhood, children need communication, respect and security, which are not satisfied because of their parents' educational methods. Parents who adopt this kind of education will bring many negative factors to their children in their daily life, which will seriously affect the development of their mental health.

The influence of arbitrary indulgence education on children

1, affecting the development of healthy personality

Spoiling parents often report their positive feelings to their children, encourage them and respond positively to them. However, there is a lack of control, and there are few rules for children to develop themselves and make their own decisions, and there are few requirements for children. Take an attitude of ignoring or accepting children's violations of the rules. Even if they are angry, they will hide their emotions from themselves. Most children in this way of education are immature. They like to give full play to themselves at will, lack due respect for their parents, a sense of responsibility, poor cooperation ability, little consideration for others and lack of self-confidence.

2. Affect behavior development

Children who grow up in a doting education mode are prone to impolite or offensive behavior in social life, because their parents have not imposed any restrictions on their behavior and manners. The connivance and response of family members to children will make children like to be self-centered, don't care about other people's feelings, don't know how to get along with others, don't know how to control and manage their emotions, and are prone to irritability, irritability and impulsiveness.