One of my educational experiences is not to force children. Many times children are really rebellious. The less they want to do what adults ask them to do, so we can't force children. Sometimes the more we force our children, the less they will listen to us. Therefore, we should learn to guide children in many things, but we should also pay attention to the methods of guidance, and don't force children. Once children feel the oppression of their parents, they will resist, so parents really need to guide their children reasonably. Don't direct the child to do anything, but guide him to do it from another direction.

Second, respect children.

? In fact, in Chinese families, many parents treat their children just like their elders treat their younger generation. In fact, this is unnecessary. We can treat our children as our friends and respect each other. Only in this way can we know our children better. Only by respecting each other can children understand us. Therefore, parents must respect their children. They can't always stand at a high angle and look down on them. It is never possible to communicate with their children. Therefore, parents must think clearly about how to get along with their children and try to respect them.

Third, raising children.

In fact, many parents hope that their children will become the pillars of the country and make great achievements in the future, but we can't expect too much from our children. We should give them time and opportunity to do what they want. For example, some children actually have some hobbies, but in the eyes of his parents, those hobbies are not on the table, so children are not allowed to continue to develop their hobbies. In fact, there is no need to do this, it is harmful to a child. Therefore, we must learn to respect children and let them do what they want.

Fourth, accompany the children.

Companionship is the longest confession. No matter how busy they are, parents can't ignore their children. Some parents actually have time, but they would rather spend their time playing mobile phones than talking to their children. It is difficult for such parents to get close to their children, so the premise of educating their children is to spend enough time with them. Even if there is not enough time, we should try to spend some time with them. Only in this way can both sides understand each other better, and then there will be fewer contradictions, so we should learn to respect children, support their decisions, and then spend more time with them.