In noisy streets, we often see two cars colliding. Maybe the driver who got off the bus will yell at each other when he gets off: "What's wrong with you? Can you drive? " Do you have eyes! "He didn't think about how things happened. For him, the most direct reaction is to pre-empt and swear; Of course, some drivers check the damage of their cars as soon as they get off the bus, and then work out how much the repair cost is, how much the salary will cost this month, or how to report to the insurance company; We can also see that some people get off the bus without saying anything, or report to the police for handling; Some people will look at each other first when they get off the bus, and decide what attitude to use to deal with each other according to the size and appearance of the other person. Some people will ask each other if they are injured after getting off the bus. In the face of the same car accident, different people show different reactions.
I once heard a thought-provoking story: there was an old shoemaker who repaired shoes for more than forty years on his way to town. One day, a young man passed by and was about to enter this town. He saw the old shoemaker mending his shoes with his head down. He asked the old shoemaker, "Old man, do you live in this town?" The old shoemaker slowly raised his head, glanced at the young man and replied, "Yes, I have lived here for more than forty years." The young man asked again, "Then you must know this place very well. I want to move here because of my job. What kind of town is this? " The old shoemaker looked at the young man and asked him, "Where are you from? What is your custom there? " The young man replied, "I'm from somewhere, our people there, forget it!" " Those people only make superficial articles. On the surface, they seem to be very kind to you, but in private, they do everything they can. No one will really be kind to you. In our place, you have to live carefully, so I don't want to live there. I want to move to your place. The old shoemaker looked at the young man silently and then answered him, "Our people here are worse than yours!" " "The young man left in silence.
After a while, another young man came to the old shoemaker and asked him, "Old man, do you live in this town?" The old shoemaker slowly raised his head, looked at the young man and answered him, "Yes, I have lived here for more than forty years." The young man asked again, "What are the people like here?" The old shoemaker looked at him silently and asked, "Where are you from? What customs do you have there? " The young man replied, "I come from a place where people are very friendly. Everyone cares about each other. No matter what difficulties you have, as long as neighbors and people around you know, they will help you enthusiastically. I really don't want to leave, but I have to move here because of work. " The old shoemaker stared at the young man with a warm smile and told him, "Don't worry, everyone here is like the people in your town. They are warm and eager to help others. "
The same town, the same group of people, but the old shoemaker gave two young people different descriptions and descriptions. Smart readers must know that no matter where the first young man goes in the world, he may encounter hypocritical and cold faces; And the second young man, wherever he goes, I think there will be warm hands and warm smiles waiting for him everywhere.
We often think that glass is transparent and what we see is truth. In fact, each of us sees ourselves, the whole world is created by yourself, and you are surrounded by mirrors, not transparent glass. If you hate a person, you will see many shortcomings, but that person will be a hundred different in the eyes of a hundred different people.
The outside world is just a mirror, reflecting many experiences of our inner life. If we want to achieve our own life and have a higher possibility of being ourselves, we must first accept the concept of "I am the root of all things", stop asking the outside world to meet our needs and use all the wasted energy back to ourselves. Everything starts with being yourself.
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The starlight disappeared in the vast sky, and now it is dead of night. The noise of the day suddenly recedes, and the mind is as quiet as a clear spring. If at this time, a person sits at a desk, picks up a book, and then slowly savors the charm of the book, it may also be a realm and a kind of enjoyment!
Lenin, a great teacher, famously said, "There are three tasks in a person's life: study, study and study again." Think about it carefully, life is like a long journey, and every journey we have traveled will have joy and hardship; I think about it, too. The source of this bitterness, joy, thinking and thinking is the inspiration we get from the book.
If life is picturesque, books are colorful;
If life is like the sea, books are rushing rivers;
If life is like a mountain, books are peaks.
Lights like beans, a roll in hand, can be angry, can be drunk, can be crazy Dongpo!
"Sing a song about wine, the geometry of life", the shortness of life is revealed from Cao Cao's generous mouth. The value of life is revealed from Fan Zhongyan's pen. "Death without conquest, the hero shed tears in his long clothes", and the helplessness of life is manifested in Du Fu's exclamation of Zhuge Liang, who devoted his life; "Since ancient times, no one has died in life, and the great achievements of life have been spread from the sad songs of the brave and fearless Wen Tianxiang!" !
In the book, there are the silent Leng Yue under the Twenty-four Bridges, the quiet lotus pond under the moonlight, the fishing boat in the monstrous white waves of Qinhuangdao, the Yellow River water that "entered the ocean and never returned", the white sails on the side of the sunken ship, the bright future of mountains and rivers, and the colorful paradise. Books bring us the baptism of beauty!
When you are lonely, reading a novel, ups and downs and vivid characters will put an end to your loneliness and boredom. Experience the adventure on the bluestone in Jingyanggang, taste the pink tears of Lin Daiyu in Daguan Garden, and feel the turning point of Mathilde's life, close to Jane? Love stubborn personality. They have the ups and downs of life, tears and laughter.
When frustrated, soak in the beautiful atmosphere of poetry and wash away the melancholy and impetuousness of life. Qu Yuan gave you the persistence of "I would rather die in exile than go on like this"; Du Fu gave you the mind of "worrying about pear orchards in poor years", Tao Yuanming gave you the indifference of "picking chrysanthemums under the hedge and seeing Nanshan leisurely", and Su Dongpo gave you the detachment of "climbing the mountain after emergence". They have the pursuit of "Xiu Yuan is a long way to go, and I will go up and down", the open-mindedness of "laughing at the sky and going out", and the spirit of "being healthy and striving for self-improvement" ... Utilitarianism has retreated in their eyes, replaced by a feeling and thinking, a baptized phoenix nirvana.
Reading is the life of reading, the life of our ancestors, the life of the author and our own life. Reading is more like enjoying flowers, and each flower has its own beauty; Every book has its subtleties. When we are lonely, we read books; When we are frustrated and confused, we study; When we are successful and happy, we also read books. After reading sadness, we shed tears; We are excited to read Happy Place. As cool as summer breeze, as warm as winter sun, it gives people strength, optimism and encouragement, which runs through our life and makes our life have charming colors and warm dreams. When we read the whole page of words, and then through the fence behind the words, we will see the vicissitudes of life, the changes of history, and the figures of our ancestors. It is books that enrich our lives and teach us the truth of being a man; It is also the book that gives us the starting point of life and raises the sail of our long life.
Reading enriches life and broadens horizons. I learned knowledge from books, how to evaluate history comprehensively and how to know myself objectively. I can absorb rich nutrition from books and accumulate a lot of writing materials, which can benefit me a lot. This made me deeply realize how prosperous this book is, how many sensitive hearts collide in joys and sorrows, and how many thoughtful minds are pondering over society and life repeatedly!