First of all, we should attach importance to children's ideological and moral education. Children must learn to be human in order to live in the world. They should teach their children the fine qualities that the working people in China have admired for thousands of years, and let these fine qualities take root in their minds, such as integrity, honesty, kindness, trustworthiness, courage, diligence, responsibility and cooperation. In particular, it is necessary to strengthen patriotism education so that children can feel the greatness and pride of the people of China from an early age.
Secondly, we should pay attention to let children have a happy childhood. Children should enjoy happiness when they are young. We can't add a heavy burden to our children because we are worried about their future, and exchange their happiness for excellent results. This is the most sorry thing for children.
Thirdly, at the age when children should study hard, we should guide them to study hard and stimulate their inner learning motivation. As long as children have internal drive, it is difficult to excel. In addition, parents should not pay too much attention to their children's test scores in primary schools, but should pay attention to their children's learning attitude in primary schools, so that children can develop serious good habits and benefit them for life. Pay attention to the formation of good habits in children's middle school, set high aspirations and fight for their ambitions efficiently. In college, we must pay attention to children's performance and academic achievements in school, and urge children to learn more knowledge while being flexible and energetic, so as to lay a solid foundation for their bright future.
Finally, it is very important to establish children's correct outlook on life and values. Educating children, we can't be alone. Living a meaningful life depends on your contribution to most people. A big contribution means that the more meaningful your life is. Otherwise, even if you get more, you are still an exploiter.
Educating children is not a one-day or two-day effort, but requires unremitting edification and cultivation. Children's success is the most cost-effective and successful investment for parents. The biggest regret in one's life is the failure of education for children. This is well-known common sense, but it is also a mistake that many smart people are prone to make.