Many children in today's society are very dissatisfied with their parents ignoring their self-esteem and casually mentioning their privacy to outsiders. This has to attract the attention of parents. However, many parents may think that a child is so young that talking about his own shortcomings can make him "be ashamed and brave". Some parents think it is useless to criticize their children in front of everyone, thinking that many people can create pressure on their children and thus get rid of their shortcomings. Some parents took their children to play, and the children fell down. When their families saw it, they not only didn't give any sympathy, but also said to the children in front of everyone, "You fell, and you deserved it. Who made you so naughty? Now you know it hurts. " I am very happy! "Parents' behavior is a disgrace to the child's personality and will seriously hurt the child's self-esteem. If parents do not pay attention to educational methods and often criticize and satirize their children in public, it will leave an indelible shadow on their young hearts. Over time, children will gradually feel inferior, paranoid, lack good psychological feelings and enterprising spirit, lack self-confidence, have antagonistic feelings with their parents, and even make their children withdrawn or aggressive.

Behavior habit refers to the habitual behavior tendency and social fashion that conforms to the requirements of moral norms and principles under the control of certain moral consciousness. Mr. Ye Shengtao, a famous educator, said: "Good habits are cultivated and will benefit you for life;" Bad habits are formed, and it is not easy to change them after eating them for a lifetime. "