Parents' learning experience of the course 1? Thanks to Qingyuan School for providing this very rare learning opportunity for our parents. After attending the family education class organized by Qingyuan School on May 13, I felt I was enlightened and benefited a lot.
? To tell the truth, I never realized that there was such profound knowledge in the process of educating children! Originally, I have always subjectively thought that "being a parent and educating children" should be a relatively simple and natural thing. I think today's children are far better than those who didn't have enough to eat and wear in the countryside when they were young. I think they will buy her whatever she wants as long as they have enough to eat and play well. That's what I thought before. Simple! Under the persuasion and education of the teacher with positive and negative real examples, I feel a lot. At this moment, all the confusion and unsolved knots after being frustrated in educating children are gone! It turns out that being a good parent still needs so much knowledge and skills. It seems that there are really no bad children in the world, only incompetent parents!
? By attending parent school, there are three main experiences:
? First of all. To be a good parent, always put yourself in the child's shoes and understand the child; To be a good parent, you must have a healthy mood and not hate your child because of his dissatisfaction; Also avoid emotional ups and downs, especially be good at controlling anger! To be a good parent, you should have good psychological quality, good moral sentiment, optimism and humor, courage to overcome difficulties, perseverance and the ability to control emotions! Only in this way can children form a good emotional intelligence imperceptibly!
? Secondly, we should learn to cultivate children's good reading habits. As children just entering school, we should cultivate them to have good reading habits. Such as guiding them to observe nature and life. Improve their interest in learning and give timely affirmation and reward to their little achievements in learning.
? Finally, as parents, we should have a normal heart, and we should have a normal heart for our children's education and grades! And this is what most parents, including me, have not done. In fact, we are ordinary parents, but why should we make our children outstanding? Maybe when we ask our child with a normal heart, she will become a person who makes us happy, healthy, lively, happy and successful!
? In a word, my parents taught me a lot in class, let me know how to have scientific educational ideas and basic educational methods, and put forward long-term learning requirements for our parents. The Long March has just begun its first step. Our parents should cooperate with school education in accordance with the law of education, educate their children in a scientific way and guide them to stimulate their potential. Although it is really not easy to do, I will correct it bit by bit, strive to improve my psychological quality, study with my children and make progress together!
Parents' course learning experience II? On July 20, I participated in the micro-course training of Wendeng District Teaching and Research Center, which benefited a lot and was deeply touched.
? With the development of information technology, many new generation products have appeared, and micro-courses are one of them. When we came into contact with micro-courses before, we were very vague and didn't have a clear understanding of it. We will think that micro-class is a short class activity, or record a short video of a class activity, or break a 40-minute class into multiple class fragments, and so on. After training, I have a deeper understanding. It is recognized that micro-lesson is a network teaching video with the goal of explaining a certain knowledge point, the short and pithy network video as the form of expression and the purpose of learning or teaching application. Mainly short and pithy, "short" means short video length; "Small" means small subject matter; "Exquisite" means excellent design, production and explanation; "Difficult" means that the learning effect is shocking and unforgettable.
? In this training, I also learned the design and production of micro-courses, including topic selection design, compiling teaching plans, preparing teaching materials and practicing tests, making courseware, teaching implementation and shooting, video post-editing and teaching reflection. We can use screen recording software, camera tools, recording and broadcasting classrooms, smart pens, IPAD and special software to make micro-lessons. Some of these methods are very suitable for us, and we can also find tools to use. What we need now should be technology.
? After the meeting, I studied this "new project" with curiosity At first, I downloaded the screen recording software, all in English. I went to Silicon Valley to teach myself how to use this software. I had a short micro-lesson with the mentality of giving it a try, and I felt terrible after reading it. I have shot it several times and watched it several times, but I always feel that it is not perfect. To sum up, to do a good job in a micro-lesson, we must first be very familiar with the operation process of the courseware, and repeat the content to be displayed at least five times without stuttering. I won't be so unsure when I shoot again. Five minutes passes quickly, so the content of the micro-lesson should not be too much, and the language must be refined. The summary method should be in place and impressive after listening to it, so that it can be regarded as a better micro-course. Looking back at my own micro-course, I finally don't know how to edit it. Today, I downloaded a new version of the screen recording software, only to find that there are many new functions, including editing. I tried to cut some films I didn't want, and it was quite successful. Of course, I made some changes at the end of the film and found it much better than before. Knowing the new project of micro-lesson not only makes me enjoy the fun of taking selfies, but also makes me take a step further in the direction of teaching and research. If I have time, I will also try to make more beautiful courseware and shoot more ideal micro-courses.
Parents' course learning experience 3? Thanks to the experimental middle school for providing parents with a rare learning opportunity. Just last year, your school invited Dr. Dong Jinyu, a famous expert in parenting education, a famous life motivation tutor and a successful education expert, to give us a vivid lesson in parenting education. Dr. Dong once used his unique theoretical system to help his two younger brothers complete their doctoral studies, and used his original parenting education model to guide his daughter's doctoral practice, which amazed the parents present. What excites me even more is that he has another secret book for educating children, which Dr. Dong told his parents: "A person's self-esteem is like a person's backbone. If a person wants to live with dignity, he must hold his head high and stand up. Children are human, so let her go. In Dr. Dong's view, there must be excellent educational methods behind an excellent child. If the child has a problem, 100% is the parent. There is no child who can't be taught well. Only parents who don't master the educational methods are educated!
? On the afternoon of April 18 this year, the experimental middle school once again invited Dr. Dai Dong, a well-known domestic expert on parenting education, one of the top ten trainers in international universities and the president of the International Family Education Industry Association, to give us a wonderful training course on parenting education. Dr. Dai's unique education and training method won applause from parents again and again. I agree with every parent present. It's well worth listening to. To sum up, there are two words, one is "fine" and the other is "new". "Fine" means that Dr. Dai's parent-child training course is wonderful, and "new" means that Dr. Dai's parent-child training course is unique and novel. Dr. Dai said that parents must give their children trust and applause, and at the same time put an end to the picture of their children facing death. Parents' attitudes and emotions have a direct impact on their children. They want to make children learn happily and actively, and put forward a series of concrete methods on how to make children learn happily and actively. During the speech lasting more than two hours, Dr. Dai Dong was always very calm and natural. He won the applause of parents with vivid cases and humorous and enlightening language. Dr. Dai told parents: "We should pay more attention to the advantages of children and give them encouragement and applause. We shouldn't compare them with other children, then criticize them, attack them and deny them. This will only make them lose their interest and motivation in learning and lose their self-worth. What we should do most is to trust our children, because trust is a kind of strength. "
? After two studies, I benefited a lot.
? Mainly have the following understanding and experience:
? First, we should strengthen equal communication with children. Pay attention to cultivate the feelings between father and daughter, mother and daughter, and be the person that children trust most. The child has just entered adolescence and is in the period of character formation. The success or failure of parent-child communication directly affects the development of children's personality. I used to think that children's education was a school matter, and I seldom asked about children's performance in school. When children's grades do not meet the expected requirements, there is only a simple question, so that children can find out the reasons themselves. Although I don't criticize children, I lack emotional and rational ways to encourage and spur children, let alone reflect on and find out the problems of parents' education.
? Second, we should learn to cultivate children's good study habits. It is necessary to guide children to prepare for the next day's course and find out the difficulties; Take a few minutes to recall what you learned that day and deepen your memory; Spend dozens of minutes every week recalling what you have learned this week to consolidate your memory; In class, write down what the teacher thinks can't be understood in class with a special notebook to further understand and master; Take the initiative to interact with the teacher in class and be single-minded. As long as you develop the above study habits, your learning ability will naturally be greatly improved.
? Third, give children more applause, let them have dignity and enjoy the happiness of learning forever. When a child does something right, parents must not be stingy with their applause, so that she can always enjoy the happiness brought by doing something right and doing it well. Don't criticize her simply and rudely when she does something wrong or badly. You know, no child wants to do bad things. Parents should help her correct her mistakes and shortcomings in time from the perspective of love and encourage her to do better!
? Fourth, we should avoid facing children with dead faces. Don't bring bad mood to children. Understand the exchange principle. What have you done for your children? Of course, it's not how much money you spent and how many things you did, but how much you changed for your children. Keep your mouth shut at all times. Don't nag, when a child does badly in the exam or does something wrong, your first sentence should say it doesn't matter. You studied well and did the right thing. Mom and dad love you. If you don't study hard and do something wrong, mom and dad still love you. What's more, the past does not represent the present, and the present does not represent the future. As long as you get serious, you will be the best!
? Fifth, we should talk about counterpoint. Children have problems in their study and life. Don't compare her with other excellent children. This comparison is meaningless and unfair, because it is wrong. Counterpoint is to compare yourself with the parents of other excellent children, to see how they are parents and how to educate and help their children. When you become an excellent parent, your child will naturally become an excellent child.
? Sixth, we should learn the role of empathy. Whether you are the boss of the group or the leader of the government, you are the parents of the children when you get home, and you are the person who can solve the problems for the children. Suppose you are a policeman. When you get home, your child will think that you treat them as thieves, and her study life will be affected by your attitude.
? Today, due to my lack of knowledge, I can't accurately and comprehensively understand and summarize what the two experts said. I just have a superficial understanding and understanding of what they said. I hope to make up for the shortcomings in the future parents' study class. Thank you!