First, parents' repressive education has an influence on you, and you don't feel enough warmth and love. Because in normal life, once the child is at fault, parents are impatient and yell at the child, which makes the child feel the warmth of the family and the care of the parents for a long time.
Second, the influence of parents' repressive education on you is that you are timid In fact, children often make some small mistakes when they grow up. If parents face some small mistakes made by their children, they will not patiently persuade and educate them, but will call a spade a spade and blame their children more seriously. Over time, they will make children timid.
Third, the influence of parents' repressive education on you is that children lack enough self-confidence. It is because in the process of children's growth, they lack the encouragement and appreciation of their parents, and often see their parents' serious faces. Even if the child does it right, he can only get a sentence from his parents, "You are so old, shouldn't you do it?" . Therefore, children will have a kind of self-denial and their self-confidence is not strong enough.
Fourth, the influence of parents' repressive education on you is that you have some inferiority complex. In normal life, parents always praise other people's children in front of their children, but children rarely get their parents' praise and recognition, which leads to their psychological inferiority.
Fifth, the influence of my repressive education on you is that you will doubt whether your parents are your biological parents. Because children face serious parents, parents are strict with their children everywhere, and there is little encouragement and praise. When the child grows up, there is a doubt in his heart that it is not his own.
Sixth, your parents' repressive education has had an impact on you, such as indecision and lack of opinions. Because in the environment where children grow up, they lack the encouragement and correct guidance of their parents. Once they do something wrong, they will be severely criticized or even beaten by their parents, which will lead to children losing their opinions and being afraid of wolves before and tigers after.
Seventh, parents' repressive education has an impact on you. You are very eager to study hard or do the right thing, but because you are under great pressure, it is counterproductive. Growing up in such a family environment, are children unhappy with everything they do? I'm afraid I can't do it in my parents' hearts. Over time, my hands-on ability is not as good as other children.
Eighth, the influence of parents' repressive education on you is that your psychological quality is not very good. Once faced with a major exam, I will feel nervous, and sometimes my hands will tremble when writing a paper. They think they didn't do well in the exam, and they will talk about themselves, so this kind of psychological pressure can't play their true level in the face of the exam.
Ninth, parents' repressive education has had an impact on you and can't really let your child go. Whether in front of classmates or relatives and friends, such children will rarely talk and dare not release their inner feelings.
Tenth, the influence of parents' repressive education on you is that when you take the public examination, you often sometimes fail to perform satisfactorily in front of the examiner because of weak psychological quality, lack of self-confidence and invisible pressure.
In short, parents must pay attention to science in their children's education, and they can neither spoil nor suppress education for a long time. Parents have good intentions and want to expect their children to "expect their children to succeed". Parents should pay enough attention to their children's mental health growth, give them enough care, equal dialogue, timely encouragement and appreciation, and let their children grow up healthily physically and mentally.