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How can we be patient with children?
Children have patience.

1, the child made a mistake

Every child makes mistakes, and the process of children's growth is actually a process of making mistakes, so parents should be patient with their children. Just like the mother on the show, she has never been mean to her children. She is always gentle. She curls up her hair without makeup. She is gentle in everything she does, trying to make her children sensible. Therefore, parents should be patient with their children.

2. Be patient in the process of educating children.

Many parents are angry, and they will be particularly angry when they encounter something, as well as in the process of educating their children. In fact, parents are samples of children. If parents are too grumpy, then children will learn to do things like their parents. In a grumpy environment, children are either particularly grumpy when they grow up and learn from their parents' ways of dealing with people, so as to associate with their classmates, or they become particularly cowardly and do things only after Nuo Nuo, without the courage to take responsibility. No matter which way, a sensible and well-behaved child will not be educated, so parents must pay attention to their patience and be patient with their children in the process of education.

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Accompany children

1, watch TV with children

In the program, my mother often watches TV with my heart in her arms, and my heart will dance and shout "Pulling radish". It is precisely because of the company of the mother that the child will grow into a sensible and well-behaved child. Now the social pressure is so great that everyone's life is in a hurry. Every parent wants their children to win at the starting line, and they all want to be at the starting line, so they work hard to earn money to support their families and hope to give their children better material living conditions, but sometimes this is not what children want.

After work, you might as well spend more time with your children, don't always play with your mobile phone, don't always ignore your children, care more about their growth and their mental health. In addition, we should pay attention to concentration in the process of companionship. Don't let the children watch TV, you are watching the mobile phone. Give children high-quality companionship, not companionship.

Step 2 play games together

In my life, I always play games with my children. In the process of playing games with children, you can not only give them a good company, give them a feeling of love, but also draw closer the relationship between you. Don't think that children's games are childish, so you are too lazy to take care of them. The child is your own, and everyone came from that time. You should give your children patience, time and growth. In addition, if there are any parent-child activities in the school, you must bring your children to participate, and don't let them feel inferior. Others are accompanied by their parents, but they have nothing. Such a child is sensitive, and his understanding and cleverness will make him grow up inappropriately.

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Let your child feel your love for him.

1. Tell your child that you love him.

In the present environment, many children are loveless. But parents may belong to the thoughts of the older generation, and it is difficult for them to express their love. This has caused the situation that children have no love and parents don't know how to express it. So if you want to educate a sensible and well-behaved child, you must tell your child your love for him.

In normal life, if your child does something wrong, you can tell him "I love you, but I don't want you to do this" instead of blaming him too much. On the one hand, it can express love for children, on the other hand, it can let children know that what they are doing is wrong. Since children are given a sense of security and can correct their mistakes, a word can achieve twice the result with half the effort, so parents should not be stingy to express their love and do not find it difficult to say it. When expressing it to your children, let them feel your love for them.

2. Show it with practical actions.

In the program, Xin 'er's mother is on a business trip to take care of her brother. The first thing she did when she came back was to see if the child had been wronged and give Xiner and her brother a kiss. Growing up in such an environment, the child will certainly become gentle and sensible, because her mother has given her infinite love. Therefore, you should express your love for your children with practical actions in your life, so that children will learn to treat others in your way. A caring child will be smart and sensible, and a violent child, you can't expect him to be smart and sensible. Therefore, parents are the benchmark for children, and parents should take good care of their children.

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Treat children equally.

Learn to treat children equally. On the one hand, children are equal people, so don't think that children are born to you, and treat them as you want. Children are also independent people, and they are eager to be treated equally. On the other hand, in some families, if there are two children, parents tend to prefer the youngest one, and everything will give way to the youngest one, but in such an environment, older children will lack the love of their parents. He can't feel the love of his parents, so he is withdrawn. Under such circumstances, it is impossible for a child to grow into a sensible and clever person.

Conclusion: Every parent likes sensible and intelligent children, and people will feel particularly envious when they see their hearts, but they often forget that it is their responsibility to educate their children. At the beginning of life, people are kind by nature, and when they are born, they will become particularly naughty, and when they are born, they will be withdrawn and indifferent. Therefore, educating children is a problem for parents. How to educate a child into a smart and sensible child is what parents should do. Don't blame your children for not being sensible, but reflect on whether your education is appropriate. We should love our children, let them live in a loving environment and give them a correct education. Only in this environment can we become a sensible person. May every parent's efforts be rewarded, and may every child become sensible and smart.