? In fact, as our post-80s and post-90s parents, their thoughts and outlook on life are very conservative, because they have been living in their circles, and it is difficult for them to enter their circles no matter the information or the progress of the times.
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? As children, we can't complain and blame them. After all, they have lived for most of their lives, and this is how they came. Isn't it the same?
? They don't think there is anything wrong with their life and status quo, let alone that they are conservative. They are just sticking to what they should stick to for most of their lives.
As children, we have the responsibility and obligation to pass on new information and new ideas to them, and let them know that the times are progressing and their thoughts should follow suit.
Of course, words are not enough. We should impress them with real things and things to make them understand and accept.
? We can't say that because parents don't understand, we won't tell them about the changes in this society. If we don't say that they don't understand, we can slowly digest and change their ideas.
In fact, as parents, they are also eager to know new things, but their conservative character in the past made them embarrassed to speak.
? Parents are very conservative because their past ideas have influenced them. With the baptism of years, this influence has become a fixed form, which eventually leads them to be more conservative.
As children, as long as we have the patience to convey new information to them and slowly prove that these new things do have their advantages over time, they will gradually accept these new concepts of life and their thoughts will gradually change.
Take my father for example. He is also a very conservative person. When I first started to be health care industry, he couldn't accept it, but it didn't stop me from doing it. My daughter can't take care of it anymore, and he just finds various reasons to find fault with me and oppose my industry through these.
But then I took the initiative to make him a health care plan, telling him that people's living standards have improved now, and people's awareness of health care will be high in the future. This industry has a good prospect, and now health care is very formal, not what I thought before.
Plus, he himself feels that every time I give him a health care plan, he really relaxes and stops talking. Later, he slowly asked me to make a health care plan for him.
As long as we convey new information in the right way, they will gradually change their ideas. We should give parents enough time to adapt to this information and this new era, so as to change their conservative ideas.
It is necessary to convey the concept of life in the new era and to understand parents. As children, we should give some parents who can't change this idea time. After all, parents are old and don't understand and accept as quickly as young people.
Whether or not they finally change this conservative concept, mutual understanding between children and parents is also a beautiful thing.