The "Consequence Experience Method" makes the most naughty boys obey.
Compared with girls, boys are more naughty. Especially the four-year-old boy, with a sense of independence, began to rebel.
I began to brush the "sense of existence" in the class. The teacher said, "There are such naughty boys in every class. When everyone is well-behaved, it is really a headache for such a small group of uncooperative children to suddenly appear. "
For example, some naughty boys in the class have a cup of soybean milk for breakfast in the morning. The child didn't taste good, threw up in the cup, and deliberately spilled soy milk on the floor and table.
What did the teacher do in the face of such a naughty boy?
Just one trick
The teacher said: "I saw that the child was not eating well and disobeyed, so I gave a verbal warning first and then took the cup away." After a warning, there will still be children who are not convinced and want to continue to test whether I will take care of him, so I will continue to spit into the cup. So I took the quilt away and put it out of their reach.
There is no reprimand or punishment in this way, just let them see the consequences, and the children will understand after seeing the consequences-if I don't obey, there will be punishment. The behavior of the same punishment depends on the basis.
With a lesson from the past, the children began to understand our requirements. After school, these children still want to be lazy. Other children pack their toys and they play secretly. Instead of yelling at them loudly, the teacher said in a gentle and serious tone, "If you don't clean up, you won't take you to play games tomorrow."
Because the little boys knew the teacher's requirements and that the teacher would really do such a thing, the little boys quickly took action.
The rules of this world have become extremely clear to the little boy. The boy understands that if he doesn't accept toys, this behavior will directly affect his chances of playing next time.
Parents should make rules and strictly abide by them.
In every family, parents have made rules, but they are not clear when implementing them. Sometimes, she takes her children to dinner and can't get up in bed. Parents tell their children that if you don't want to eat well, mom will take away the bowl of this meal and you will eat more at the next meal:
This plan should have been strictly implemented. After all, it doesn't matter whether the child is hungry or not. But! Grandma heard the small steps and ran over with a bowl and said to the child, "Eat more, it's okay!" " "In this way, the child did not experience the consequences, although he heard the rules and finally did not implement them.
The most important problem of family education is that parents' system implementation must be consistent.
If you want to educate naughty children, you need to communicate with the elderly at home. Otherwise, if the rules are not implemented, it will be of no benefit to educating children.
Punishing children wisely is more effective than beating and cursing 100 times.
It is human nature to make mistakes. Children also make many mistakes when they grow up. What if I make a mistake? Smart parents will make their children understand the consequences of making mistakes.
Experiencing one's own mistakes is the best teacher for children.
Why is it wrong to beat and scold children? Because psychologists have done research and found that children who are often beaten and scolded can easily transfer their behavior to boys.
For example, children are often beaten by their families, and their temper will become violent and they will use force. If there are other children around him, he will also hit others to vent his frustration and anger.
After the poor other children were beaten, the boy who hit them was vented. He found that hitting people felt good, so his aggressive behavior intensified. If you are beaten again in the future, there will be a phenomenon of beating others to transfer their feelings.
There are no two identical leaves in the world, and every naughty child has different personality, endurance and ability.
When punishing these children, parents must fully respect them and treat their mistakes calmly and objectively. So, don't beat and scold children. If your anger urges you to raise your hand, it really only shows that you are too lacking in educational wisdom. Why not try the "consequence experience method"?