Although her mother-in-law is a teacher, she seldom reads books and spends most of her spare time watching TV. Just look at it. I also like lying on the sofa all day watching a pile of meat spread out on the sofa in the living room. Very uncomfortable.
The two children did the same, lying on the sofa watching TV. She can pour wine, regardless of the children, and she will hold the children on the sofa and watch them with relish. This result not only affects children's eyesight, but also is a very bad habit. I often have an impulse to smash the TV.
The TV at home is on from morning till night. Where can children study? Attracted by TV programs. I can't stare at them all day, so I just follow them every day. I am very helpless! If you are your own mother, you can talk about it, but isn't your mother-in-law creating contradictions? Say it once. Can we talk about it every day?
Recently, my mother-in-law bought a new smart phone, which is great. The children began to play with her mobile phone again. The old lady never cares, as long as the children don't make noise, they can do whatever they want, which has nothing to do with her. Having such a mother-in-law is really worrying!
As a teacher, I naturally know the importance of education and how important the environment for growing up is to a child. Don't teach children to read, but also take them to watch TV every day. Isn't this harmful to children?
Sometimes when a child cries, she can't stand it, so she plays cartoons for her children. Which child doesn't like watching TV? The child stopped crying when he watched TV. She was relieved, but she lied to the child! What is this, grandma?
I believe this is also the case for most families in China. In order to get a good class, many parents will ask the elderly to look after their children, or their husbands are filial and must take their parents to live together. This will inevitably lead to intergenerational education and have a very bad influence on children.
First of all, the behavior habits of the elderly, like my old people, whether the children are at home or not, hold the TV every day. Some elderly people are more exaggerated and will take their neighbors and friends home to play mahjong to kill time. Children will inevitably be affected, and slowly, they will spend a lot of time on useless things, and their studies will naturally be affected.
If a family can't reach a consensus and create a green learning environment for their children, then their family education will become a problem. Unless the child is particularly self-disciplined, not influenced by the outside world, concentrate on his studies. However, such children are rare!
Secondly, the old people especially like their children. For various psychological reasons, the old man dotes on his grandson unprincipled. Give what you want, do what you want, don't do it if you don't want, and don't let your children do some housework within their power. Anything delicious at home is also reserved for children.
What is even more hateful is that when parents educate their children who have done something wrong, the elderly will not hesitate to intervene in the protection, which makes the family education incomplete, and the children have not fully understood where they are wrong in the end. In a daze, the same mistake will continue.
For those old people who come out of the countryside with little culture and little pattern, it is a disaster for the growth of children. An old man like that cares about everything, loves to take advantage of small things and never suffers. When children grow up with such old people, they are naturally influenced by subtle influences.
The environment in which a person grows up will have a great influence on his life. This is why there is an old saying: three look at the old, seven look at the old. And so many children in China grew up under the unprincipled doting of the elderly.
Most of these children are poor in independence, selfish, self-centered, unable to love or be grateful. Children are the future of the country. What role can children trained in such an environment play?
But in China, a nation that pays attention to filial piety, people generally don't leave the old people to live their own lives, not to mention that there are many only children now.
As long as there are families with elderly people, intergenerational education is inevitable. This is a difficult problem to solve! Filial piety and children's education are not satisfactory, which is a headache.
Do you have any good ideas? Let's talk about it