Ask yourself, have you ever hit a child? Nowadays, positive discipline is advocated everywhere, and children are effectively disciplined without beating or scolding, rather than beating or scolding. So the so-called punishment may not only mean beating or scolding, but these two may be the most obvious ways.

Children are disappointing?

When communicating with elders about parenting concepts, many concepts emerge one after another, such as "a son will fail to live up to expectations if he doesn't fight", "a dutiful son is born under a stick" and "if he doesn't fight for three days, he will go to the wall to uncover the tiles".

Positive discipline

Moreover, they also said that I beat and scold children, and they are all very educated. Are they all successful now? Without punishment and connivance, it is easy for children to discipline effectively, but it is not so easy in the process of implementation.

Does language attack count?

Moreover, the so-called impunity is too broad. Apart from obvious beating and cursing, does language attack and language threat count, and does bad attitude count?

self-discipline

The process of raising children is also the process of parents' self-cultivation and self-growth. I can only say that I have to keep practicing!