First, take the initiative to contact the parents of students and seek a common and consistent educational position. Teachers and students' parents have the same goal, which is to educate students to become talents. There is no relationship between leaders and led, and between education and educators. Therefore, when studying students' problems, the class teacher never emphasizes that you should do what I want you to do. Instead, let go of the teacher's "shelf", calmly explain to parents in the tone of consultation and consultation, actively coordinate, jointly explore ways to solve problems, and jointly deal with students' problems.

Second, listen carefully to parents' opinions and suggestions and get their support and cooperation. Parents are children's first enlightenment teachers, and families are children's first schools. Family education is first and foremost an important part of opening students' wisdom and mind. Generally speaking, parents and children get along with each other day and night, and they know their children's personality characteristics and hobbies like the palm of their hand, which can truly and comprehensively reflect the situation of students at home. In home visits, parent-teacher conferences and contact with parents, it is of great help to the class teacher to fully understand the students and then manage the class collective. Students also like to give unreserved feedback to their parents about the school, teachers, classmates and classes. Many parents also attach great importance to their children's education. They always want to know the deployment of their class teachers and subject teachers, their education and teaching level and so on. Observing the learning performance of one's own children and other children is often more in-depth, detailed and specific than teachers, thus making some corresponding comments on school education, and sometimes even some sharp criticisms or situations that are inconsistent with the facts. At this time, the class teacher is required to listen humbly and not to quarrel or argue with parents. Of course, the head teacher should have judgment and psychological endurance when listening to parents' opinions and suggestions with an open mind. At the same time, thank them for their support to the school work, and consider the reasonable opinions and suggestions of parents on school education and teaching. Only in this way can we win the trust of parents and achieve the purpose of communicating with parents about scientific ways and means of educating students.

Third, respect the personality of parents. Although teachers play a leading role in the relationship between teachers and parents, they are completely equal in personality, and there is no difference between generations. Therefore, on the one hand, teachers must respect the personality of students' parents, especially the parents of so-called "poor students" and "disobedient" children. For the problems in the process of education, we should first find the reasons from ourselves, at the same time, we should objectively analyze the crux of the problem, fairly evaluate the performance of family education of students and parents, and work with parents to study the solutions to the problems; On the other hand, teachers should not "complain" to their parents easily, and should not blame their children in public. As a teacher, you should not reprimand or blame your parents, say anything that insults your parents' personality, and do nothing that insults your parents' personality. Otherwise, teachers and parents will be estranged or even opposed, and students may be dissatisfied with their parents or teachers, which will damage the image of teachers and reduce the effectiveness of education. Respecting others is a manifestation of self-esteem and a prerequisite for gaining respect from others. As the saying goes, "People who respect others will always respect others".

Fourth, educate students to respect their parents. A good teacher should not only respect students' parents, but also educate students to respect their parents, especially those with low social status and cultural level. An educated teacher will never say anything that undermines his prestige in front of his students. Facts have proved that educating students to respect their parents can not only enhance their prestige and role, but also strengthen the power of family education. Moreover, when parents see their children grow up healthily under the education of teachers and receive such respect, they will also sincerely thank the teachers and trust them more.