Appropriate rewards and punishments for children are indispensable means of education, which can help children develop good behavior habits and establish a correct view of right and wrong. However, rewards and punishments are skillful, and if they are not used well, they will not only fail to play their due role, but also have some negative effects.

The respective scope of application of rewards and punishments

We should define the scope of application of rewards and punishments respectively. Rewards and punishments should be well-founded, and the proportion of rewards and punishments should be "three rewards and seven rewards".

Praise is more effective than scolding.

Praise is more effective than scolding in educating children. If punishment is more than praise, it is easy to hurt children's self-esteem and self-confidence, especially for young children.

Give priority to encouragement

Give priority to encouragement, criticize three points and reward seven points. The ultimate goal of rewards and punishments is to praise children's advantages, guide them to correct their shortcomings, cultivate their good behavior habits, and lay a good foundation for their lifelong development.