Parents are the first teachers of the children. What values do they want to convey to their children? World outlook and marriage view are all in the growing environment and childhood experience. I hope parents can be qualified parents, educate their children in all directions and let them have a happy childhood. When a loving family grows up, it will also have a good view of marriage. Nowadays, children are precocious and smart, so parents should learn some correct ways to communicate with their children.

Most of them may cause mental illness. Especially adolescence. Seemingly obedient, excellent academic performance, is a master. But it is also possible to stay up all night because you sleep a few minutes late every day. Finally, depression. There are really many such students now, excellent prestigious schools, but they may collapse completely under the pressure of the college entrance examination. Or graduate students who have gone to college are overwhelmed by the pressure of some studies or interpersonal relationships.

There is a serious problem. Compulsory education suppresses children's nature and prevents them from growing up in the way they should. When I was a child, people might think that children are cute, sensible and cute. Because children will become sensitive because of fear, they will look at people and act according to their eyes. His heart was imprisoned by the words of adults from an early age. But this kind of problem will be hidden deep and difficult to detect.

When something goes wrong one day, it is often a serious psychological problem. If parents can realize that there is something wrong with them, they will change, otherwise they will ruin their children's life. Another possibility is that the parent-child relationship will be extremely alienated. Children grow up under the oppression of parents' power, but if they can fly away one day, they don't want to be with their parents, which leads to disharmony between parents and children.

This kind of education is actually an education that dehumanizes human nature. Parents or teachers are advised to keep learning on the road of education. Here, I'd like to recommend some books for you to try. As a mother and an educator, I have also seen it, which is of great help to my work, my family and even my personal emotional intelligence.

In short, all parents are novices in education, so they should have a sense of learning and choose the right way to guide their children, so as to achieve mutual balance. Finally, it doesn't matter whether children succeed in school or not. The important thing is that he can feel happy, have his own hobbies, find his favorite career, have a happy family and a sound personality. This is the most precious wealth in life.