Do you think people are eager to ski? In fact, people only like skiing best among many hobbies. But from Gu Ailing, we see a child who wants to be better. First, parents try to provide their children with more choices, and interest will lead them to higher places. Second, a stable mood is the greatest reward for children. Third, Baby Chicken is not as wonderful as itself.
Parents strive to provide their children with more choices and more opportunities for trial and error. When children are young, they will be interested in everything and want to try. Parents should seize the opportunity, encourage their children more, try more and choose more. On the other hand, China's parents are mainly depressed. Some children like painting. When children show their works to their parents happily, some parents will suppress their children's "What are you drawing?" ! I have no idea! "
Interest is the best teacher for children, and only by casting a wide net can children have more possibilities. Gu Ailing's mother, as long as Aileen was interested in it as a child, would ask the teacher to teach. Although we don't have such strong financial resources, at least please ensure the encouragement to children, let the interest sprout in our hearts and wait for the future to blossom and bear fruit.
A stable mood is the greatest reward for children. Looking after Aileen's training video, what moved the old cow most was when Aileen had a high fever and didn't want to train. Mother's mood was very stable, and she didn't accuse her of being ill for the first time. "I have made so many preparations, paid and contributed. Why don't you say no?" There is no pessimistic saying, "If you have a fever, you will definitely not be able to play normally!" She is neither reproachful nor pessimistic. She just completely respects the wishes of the children. Whether to take part in the competition is up to the children. Mom will remind you to pay attention to safety while respecting your wishes.
Too many parents can't control their emotions, so they vent their bad feelings on their children. Yell at children when work pressure is high, and blame the economic pressure on raising children when life is not smooth. In this way, children have a heavy psychological burden and a sense of insecurity, which leads to a sense of insecurity when they grow up. Therefore, emotionally stable parents educate emotionally stable children, which is intangible wealth.
Second, the enlightenment to our education of children 1. Create a healthy and harmonious family environment
I set myself the most difficult goal because my grandmother told me not to be afraid. Are you afraid because it's difficult? Is it because you think you can't do it? But you can do anything. "Grandma was regarded as an example by Gu Ailing, who showed her the strength and determination of women.
There is little news of Gu Ailing's father in the report, but from Gu Ailing's words, she can feel her completely open mind, so no matter what her family situation is, at least Gu Ailing herself is full of love and gratitude for her family.
2. Practice the development strategy of integrating body and mind.
The most important thing in life is to find what you want to do and enjoy it. It is reported that Gu Ailing's mother values three things most in education: the first is sleeping, the second is studying, and the third is playing.
The first is to protect health, then to ask for study, and finally to admit and accept the desire to play. This strategy of integrated development of body and mind has enabled Gu Ailing to achieve a virtuous circle in self-awareness, self-drive and external sense of achievement.
Summary: A person's success depends not entirely on his own efforts and talents, but also on intergenerational accumulation. It is often said that it is difficult to get rid of the influence of family background, which is intergenerational inheritance. On the other hand, if family of origin has brought us a positive impact, do we still need to get rid of it? You know, a happy childhood cures a lifetime.
Now we may not be able to cultivate such outstanding talents as Gu Ailing, but we can try our best to eliminate our negative intergenerational inheritance as Gu Ailing's mother did for her, so that our next generation can have enough energy to start their happy lives.