Stick education is not desirable, but sometimes only stick education can make children obedient. There is a proverb in Sichuan called? Is the gold medal policeman a good man? The gold bar here is not a gold bar, but a branch. This kind of branch hurts when it hits people. The thinner, the more painful it is, and it can hurt for several days. When we were young, my mother and they used to hit me with gold bars. Until now, I can't forget the pain of my flesh and blood.

So now that I am a mother, I don't usually educate my children with sticks. Because I know the pain, I usually take persuasion education, but sometimes children are too skinny and always get into trouble. When I can't bear it anymore, I will raise my hand and slap the child, but the slap will not fall on the child's face, but on the child's palm or ass. Of course, the palm I use is only hollow.

To tell the truth, from the bottom of my heart, I hate stick education, and now that children are getting older, I think stick education is becoming more and more undesirable, because when children are young, you may scare them with sticks to make them remember for a long time, but when children are older, you will find that stick education has no effect on children, because children are used to this kind of education for a long time, so the more parents they are.

Because when the child is naughty, he knows what the consequences are, so the child is psychologically prepared. Therefore, even if the parents educate him with sticks, the child feels that it is commonplace and the fight is over. However, if you educate your children with reasonable persuasion, maybe they will remember what their parents said and won't teach them the violence of adults, which will also help them form a good habit from an early age. However, if parents use violence to solve problems for a long time, then children will get along with others in the same way when they grow up and educate the next generation, so they can not hit their children and try not to. After all, bonzi education really doesn't play much role.