We come from China and have national cultural customs and traditional psychology. The guided learning of sexual knowledge should also conform to the characteristics of China people. Blind imitation of western direct and open teaching is not conducive to the psychological development characteristics of Chinese children, but also stimulates a series of other psychological and behavioral problems. Because children have no ability to distinguish and are eager to explore knowledge, a large amount of sexual knowledge information impacts children, and the first choice for immature children to acquire knowledge is to try! For children who are not mature physically and mentally, try to experience it. This is not to promote children's development, but to harm children! It hurts not only the immature body, but also the wrong induction of children's psychological personality, which hurts the formation of children's personality in the future.

So I suggest

1, for preschool children, make more use of picture books to let children know and learn about sex. The key is that children know how to protect their private physiological organs. Underage children learn to refuse to touch physiological organs for any reason. Except for the physical examination accompanied by parents.

2. When the film and television drama is broadcast, parents should answer the scriptwriter's purpose of sex scenes in time. Let children know what is the expression of love, what is harmful behavior and what is illegal behavior. Not only refuse, but also how to protect yourself from infringement!

For middle school students and adolescent children, parents should communicate their ignorance with their children from the perspective of girlfriends and close friends. The purpose is to let children feel that everyone is going through such a transitional period and the relationship between today's concentrated study and emotional and physical development. Guide children to concentrate on their studies and strive to accumulate knowledge and skills.

4. Teach children how to correct the scale of heterosexual partners. Learn how to respect yourself and get sincere friendship. Encouraging children to learn the intimate relationship between partners should be implemented in mutual learning, mutual support of various puzzles, etc., which is a good self-study training for teenagers' physical and mental health.

5. It is forbidden to put moral labels on children's heterosexual partners. Labels such as bad girls and bad boys distort children's sexual morality and cognition. Prevent children's sexual psychology from appearing obstacles, and prevent children's sexual psychology from deviating from normal and personality disorders.