This is what parents of children who are used to beating and scolding their parents often do. As long as the children beat and scold themselves, then parents will immediately start a "beating and cursing" with their children, just like two contradictory outsiders. He tells his truth, you tell your truth, you slap me and slap you, and the whole thing is a farce. If you have a problem with your child, don't do it with your child. It will only make children understand that parents can "beat and scold" like this.

Family members are not allowed to "shh"

Let me tell you the truth about me. Once during the Spring Festival, my brother-in-law and I went to pay a New Year call to our elders. We walked to the door of a house and heard a scuffle. We thought it was New Year's Eve when the couple had a fight. As a result, we found that it was our 10-year-old son and mother who fought as soon as they entered the door. This is the first time that the child beat and scolded his mother like this, and his family booed and said to see who could beat who. As a result, the child kicked back to his mother and learned to curse. On weekdays, as long as the child loses his temper, the family will look and smile and think that the child is good. Remember, don't be funny when children behave like this.

Stop these behaviors immediately when the child appears.

Every child has challenged his parents. For example, when a child is nursing, the baby will try to bite his mother, and some mothers will feel very happy. Alas, the child knows that he has bitten, but the first time he indulges his baby's behavior, the baby will definitely be more ruthless every time. No matter how young the baby is, he knows what parents like and don't like. If you give the baby a little lesson, the baby will certainly understand. So you must remember that you must stop it in time and never tolerate it.

Don't beat and scold in daily communication with children.

When parents educate their children on weekdays, they will give them a certain degree of small punishment for what mistakes they have made. For example, if the homework is not well written, let the children rewrite it, turn it over, and then quietly tell the children that their behavior is wrong. Then the child will sincerely accept such so-called punishment. However, if you find that your child's homework is not well written, immediately yell at your child and beat and scold him. Children may be afraid of you at first, but after a long time, they will get used to it and even learn to deal with you in the same way.

Pay close attention to children when they abuse their parents.

This is also a psychological tactic to arouse children's conscience. As long as it is not the kind of lawless child who is used by his parents, beating and scolding his parents has become a common practice, and this trick should still work. When children can't control their emotions and want to beat and scold their parents, both mothers and fathers keep a close eye on them and ask them loudly, are you going to beat their parents? This will make the child's out-of-control emotions well controlled, and will also remind the child in an instant that you are the one who raised you hard in front of your parents.

Pay attention to the exercise of strengthening children's emotional self-control on weekdays.

Children who beat and scold their parents can't do one thing a day, either scolding their parents or beating them. Generally speaking, only once in a while. It's not that children don't understand that parents can't beat and scold, but because they can't control their emotions, this kind of behavior will occur. Then you should pay attention to strengthening children's self-control of their emotions on weekdays, so that children can understand that what they do is beyond their emotions.

Teach children to respect and be respected.

I once met a parent who told his child in a low voice that it would soon be your turn to push the child in front of him because he had to queue up to slide in the game of catching people. The result, of course, was that the child in front was thrown back and hurt. When the children's parents and children ask questions, the children and parents confidently answer: Who made you so slow? You deserve to fall. If parents don't teach their children to respect and be respected, then one day your child will definitely use what you taught him for you.

Parents should pay attention to their words and deeds on weekdays.

This is still an old saying, parents influence their children's behaviors and habits with their own behaviors. Many parents are too grumpy. No matter who you are with, when you are dissatisfied, you either swear or wave your fists. This kind of behavior makes children get used to it and think that this is the way to solve the problem. For those children who are used to beating their fathers and mothers, I personally think that it is not the child's nature or nature, but basically acquired. Parents are the best and earliest teachers for children, and everything about parents has an absolute direct impact on everything about children.