Li Meijin, an education expert, once said: Children are rooted in their parents, and words and deeds come from their families.
Parents' every move will subtly affect their children's life trajectory.
Children's personality and behavior often reflect their parents' lifestyle and education.
A group of cartoons popular on foreign networks some time ago-bad education methods, have poked many pain points in family education. ...
In cartoons, many incomprehensible behaviors of children have been reasonably explained.
The humorous picture has sounded the alarm for every parent: most of the children's problems are rooted in their parents. If your child always bothers you intentionally, it is because you lack physical contact and intimate relationship with him. Parents should do this:
The interruption of the child is not disruptive, but simply wants to express "Mom and Dad, stay with me". They need to feel love from their parents' responses.
Take a few more minutes to give your child a sweet smile or a big hug. Give children more attention and love, and let them know that they are loved anyway. If your child loves to lie, it is because you overreact to his mistakes. Why do children lie when they make mistakes?
Because he knows that once he tells the truth, he will face reprimands, accusations and even beatings from his parents. Children lie to escape punishment.
Parents should do this:
Keep a peaceful mind and learn to understand and accept children's mistakes. Seriously talk with children and guide them to change their bad behavior habits. If your child lacks self-confidence, it is because you give him more advice than encouragement. If your children can't stick to themselves, it's because you always criticized and educated them in public when you were young. Parents should do this:
From about 2 years old, children will have self-esteem. In public, a mocking or contemptuous look is a silent injury to children.
If parents always criticize and educate their children in public, they will only make them afraid of others' eyes, give up themselves and choose to follow the crowd to protect themselves. If you buy everything for your child, but he wants to take other people's things, it's because you haven't given him a chance to choose what he wants. Parents should do this:
Many parents have a strong desire to control their children, and parents use this desire to regulate their children's life path. If your child is weak, it is because you always help him clear every obstacle on the way to growth in time. Parents should do this:
Every time a child encounters difficulties, parents pay unconditionally and help solve all problems in time. This is a sweet trap for children and will only deprive them of the ability to solve problems independently.
Love should be moderate, learn to let go, encourage children to solve problems by themselves, and then guide, praise and praise. If your child is too jealous, it is because you always compare him with other children. Parents should do this:
Parents should know that often comparing their children with others will only make them think that they can't do anything well, thus falling into deep self-doubt. If your child gets angry easily, it is because you don't praise him enough. He can only get your attention if he misbehaves. Parents should do this:
Praise and praise are the best gifts for children.
Praising and praising children often not only helps them gain self-confidence and establish close relationship with them, but also plays an encouraging role.
In addition, parents can spend more time with their children, keep abreast of their psychological conditions and give them a sense of security. If your child doesn't know how to respect other people's feelings, it's because you always order him and don't know how to respect his feelings.
Dad, if your child always tells you nothing, it's because you always love to beat him up. Parents should do this:
Children don't want to talk to their parents more. The important reason is that they feel that what they say is not taken seriously by their parents, and even they are often accused and attacked. Over time, I naturally don't want to confide in my parents. If your child is rude, it is what he learned from his parents or people around him.