First of all, I want to explain that mediocre parents can still educate excellent children. In my opinion, whether children are excellent or not has little to do with whether parents are mediocre or not. Here are some ways for parents to educate their children. For reference only. 1. Training should be persistent. Although some parents attach great importance to their children's excellent behavior and satisfy their patience to cultivate and experience their children, this is contradictory to asking their children to form excellent behavior habits. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's independence, try their best to let them do what they can, and let them learn to be independent in daily life, interpersonal relationships, partners and groups, and their ability to distinguish right from wrong is poor. Doing something wrong is inevitable, and blunt experience and criticism may make the contact between parents and children stiff. At this time, parents should be patient and meticulous in reasoning with their children according to their understanding, let them find their own faults through concise words, be careful not to use negative tone such as "no" and "no" in the process of talking to their children, guide them positively, be friendly to his bad lines, and it is wrong to play rough.

As a child myself, I have heard many truths, and excellent codes of conduct naturally have a place in my heart. 2. Appropriate encouragement and praise. Encouragement and praise are a kind of energy and nutrients that children need during their growth. The professor once said: "No matter whose motivation it is, it is very simple to reform, but it is more difficult to correct it through punishment." Therefore, parents should actively encourage and praise their children, and low criticism will only make them go up in smoke. Parents' encouragement and praise for their children should start from their age characteristics. Children under three years old should be encouraged to praise more. For example, mothers see their children wrestling, because they have a strong self-awareness, are sensitive to adults' comments, and have a strong desire to be praised. This requires parents to encourage their children's praise appropriately, and they can't "wear a top hat" for their children, so that their behavior can't be correctly evaluated. In this way, gradually he will think that following and carrying forward appropriate praise will promote the formation of their excellent behavior habits.

3. The influence of nonverbal information. At first, children were imitated by their parents' behaviors. Through assimilation, parents' own behaviors had an important influence on children. Parents' demands on their children, such as paying attention to hygiene and civilized manners, and parents' own excellent behavior habits in daily life, have played a positive role in strengthening the composition of children's excellent behavior habits and have been handed down as beautiful talks to teach children in past dynasties. Secondly, the role model of parents has a subtle influence on the composition of children's excellent behavior. Children are good at imitating and thinking carefully, and the excellent behavior habits of adults are a direct example of his study, which effectively affects the composition of children's excellent behavior habits. In short, family education has an important influence on the composition of children's excellent behavior habits, and good behavior habits benefit people for life.