We know that three important factors related to children's growth are vision, vision and pattern, in which vision determines how far a person can go, vision determines the size of the pattern, and pattern determines how big a stage a person has. These all affect the children's later life. However, a person's vision, vision and pattern are not born, and they need to be cultivated the day after tomorrow.
We only know that it is not enough to train children, and we also need to know how to train children in order to achieve our goal. The following four points can help us easily open our children's horizons and cultivate children's vision and pattern.
0 1 Vision affects the horizon. Vision determines a person's vision. It can be said that the horizon is actually influenced by the horizon. One of the prerequisites for cultivating a discerning child is to open the child's eyes.
Therefore, as parents, we should consciously create various conditions to broaden children's horizons. With the continuous development of children's horizons, things and images in their minds will become more colorful, thus forming a better world outlook.
On the other hand, if parents don't have the awareness of expanding their children's horizons or give them wrong guidance, it will affect the formation of their children's horizons. Children with narrow horizons often have shortcomings such as being afraid to try new things and being hesitant in learning.
Sharing a short story here may give us some inspiration:
A baby elephant was sent to the zoo when he was very young. In order to prevent the elephant from escaping, the breeder put a chain on its foot. Of course, the elephant used to being free outside didn't want to, so he began to try his best to get rid of the chain. But in this way, it is conceivable that the elephant who has not grown up has little strength and can't open the chain no matter how hard he tries.
Over time, elephants began to accept their fate-this chain on their feet can't be earned. So the elephant gave up the struggle. As the days passed, the baby elephant grew into an elephant and its strength became ten times that of a child. However, it has become accustomed to it and never wants to get rid of the shackles that have been bound on its feet for a long time. The elephant became an elephant. It has the power to break free from shackles and enjoy its own freedom, but it is bound by invisible shackles that it can't earn.
How many parents have unconsciously become "elephant trainers", instead of trying to help their children broaden their horizons, they have bound their children with various invisible "chains", so that they have decided that they can't do it when they encounter difficulties and obstacles, thus missing many opportunities to break through themselves. What a pity!
Therefore, we should pay attention to cultivating children's knowledge from an early age, so that when children grow up, their horizons and horizons will often be much higher than those of their peers.
Let children "read thousands of books and walk Wan Li Road". In fact, the ancients have helped us to sum up ways to enhance our horizons. There are two main ways: one is to study in thousands of books, and the other is to take Wan Li Road.
1. "Reading thousands of books" makes children's vision more comprehensive.
Reading is a low-cost, but most worthy of parents' investment. Let children read more books, which is the easiest way to increase their knowledge and the most convenient way to see the world. Books can help children understand the world more comprehensively and deeply, so as to know astronomy and geography. Obviously, this can greatly broaden children's horizons and make their horizons more comprehensive. So, if you have time, please read with your children.
2. "Take Wan Li Road" to broaden children's horizons.
Let children see the outside world more from an early age, which will help broaden their horizons. The wider the child's horizon, the bigger the world he sees, and the bigger the pattern will naturally be.
What children see and hear during the trip can not only nourish their hearts, but also bring them a good practical experience and broaden their horizons. Therefore, families with conditions can take their children out for a walk on holidays and see the diversified world. Children will find that the world is so grand and colorful!
Of course, for most ordinary children, it is not realistic to take Wan Li Road. In addition, the epidemic around the world has not been completely eliminated. Therefore, it is a good way to broaden your horizons to take your children to the zoo and botanical garden, to observe and experience various animals, plants and natural phenomena in the countryside.
Parents' horizons are wide enough, and the pattern of children is large enough. What is the pattern? To put it simply, it is the inner layout of a person's vision, mind, courage, positioning himself and pursuing the future.
Some people say that the future pattern of children is all hidden in the upbringing of parents. That's true. The height of parents' vision is the starting point of children. The size of the pattern of parents does not depend on whether they are literate (in fact, there are many parents who seem to be literate, but the pattern is pitifully small), but whether they have the correct three views and whether they can have a positive impact on their children with good words and deeds, high-quality cultivation and rich life experience.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. If they want their children to grow up better, they must set a good example for them. If parents' vision is not broad enough, the pattern of children will not be much bigger. Only when parents' horizons are broad enough, under the subtle influence, children's overall awareness will be gradually cultivated.
The general pattern passed on from parents to children can help them to be honest, kind, optimistic and brave in their future lives.
Encourage children to learn to question. Only children who dare to question, think independently, ask questions and finally come to their own conclusions are truly thoughtful children. Only people with ideas and creativity can become people with vision and pattern in the future. Therefore, it is necessary to encourage children to learn to question on various occasions and fully give them the right to question.
Conclusion Many parents really want their children to win at the starting line. But in the final analysis, the starting line of children is still the pattern of parents.
We should create opportunities for children to look up at the stars and meet Siqi at an early age. In this way, when they grow up, it is possible for them to become people with vision, vision and pattern, and better adapt to future development.
Let's try our best to improve children's horizons, horizons and patterns, so that their future life will have more infinite possibilities!