1, well-intentioned but rejected.
However, it is inevitable that parents and grandparents educate their children in different ways. The generation gap thinks that children should still be set free, but now parents don't want their children to lose at the starting line, so they are also strict with their children. The previous generation didn't pay much attention to raising children, as long as children can grow up healthily. This leads to their different educational ideas, so it is inevitable that there will be some differences.
2. I don't know gratitude
You know, it is very hard for the elderly to take care of their children at home. But for their children, they don't think so They think it is incumbent on the elderly to help bring up the baby and they don't know how to be grateful to their parents. Nowadays, many young people feel that their mother-in-law has an obligation to take care of their children. Some parents even said to him, "If you don't help me with my children, I won't support you in the future." This kind of words will hurt others, not to mention their own relatives.
3. Children don't understand
Communication and understanding are the ways for people to live in harmony, but it is always difficult for people of different generations to communicate. The same is true for mother-in-law and her own children. Especially between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there are many contradictions.
You should know that parents don't expect too much in return for their help to their children. As long as the husband and wife can live a good life, they are very satisfied. Therefore, these are the reasons why many mother-in-law are unwilling to help with their children. The reasons for being a child account for a large part, which requires parents and elders to find a balance point in educating their children, communicate more and be considerate.